Have you ever had a three-way?

[B_Jules7]

Yes. FFM. Twice.

The same (bi) GF was involved in both scenarios, but the second girl was different on both occasions.

..................................go horribly wrong afterwards.

That is super hot.. all the highlights I usually imagine in my fantasies!

 

[deleted3782]

I have been in one. It lasted only a few months. One of the three felt like a third wheel, got bored, and found someone else.

 

[Opalite]

More than a few times actually - MMF, FFM, FMMM, etc. - most when I was single and a few in a relationship. That said and done, I'd never do so again when dating UNLESS you are absolutely sure the both of you can handle it and won't feel jealous or uncomfortable. Life isn't a porno.

I personally prefer MMF over FFM; I tend to be less interested in the guy when I'm with another girl and he usually gets left out a bit. And DP is - eventhough it's a hassle - pretty damn awesome.

 

[Bbucko]

I still have "couples are cool" written in my Manhunt profile, but I'm probably gonna change it soon. It's exceptionally rare to find a couple without unduly inhibiting limits where I find myself attracted to each equally. That "third wheel" syndrome and all its associated hurt feelings usually result.

I was once at a Memorial Day pool party (no trunks allowed) that got very messy indeed when I (unknowingly) topped an otherwise non-versatile top (coulda fooled me) and freaked out his partner (who wouldn't have topped with a gun to his head). I was later told by the host that their relationship didn't withstand that encounter.

Most likely, there's one who's hotter or more interesting than his partner. Much as I try to integrate the "other" into the play, as likely as not he winds up fetching water or changing the DVD (presuming porn is playing, and it nearly always is).

Then there's the "alpha male" scenario where I bring the bottom to a specific place his partner hasn't yet. That can be very, very troubling for the top in the relationship, who either breaks things up or attempts to dominate me (which won't happen, thanks).

Then there's the scenario where they're both bottoms and I'm little more than a human dildo: no thanks.

Then there's the scenario where the couple has played either just with each other or some other person/people before I arrive and their energy levels don't correspond. The one with lower energy, despite having excused himself to "get some rest", is frequently known to pop his head in periodically asking if we're "done yet".

The creepiest scenario I've encountered recently involved a kind of gay cuckold/SPH thing, which I found really pathetic: I left in less than an hour with no one having been satisfied.

In my experience, the best reliable scenario for threesomes and larger groups involves strangers or fuck buddies: there's much less baggage. And speaking of baggage: depersonalize the playspace, please. Nothing is less arousing than seeing framed photos of friends and family clustered on the bookcase headboard or top of the dresser: trust me on this.

 

[D_Suckleberry Hound]

Yes, both an MMF and several FFMs.

 

[gretchenweiner]

Yes, way back in the day. It was me, my boyfriend and a friend of my boyfriend's at the time, I thought his friend was mega hot, he kept flirting so I suggested to my boyfriend who was game at first. Then as the night progressed he got irritated and eventually left the room. So the threesome turned into a twosome. It wasn't long after that my boyfriend and I broke up. It was fun for the most part, but it's definitely become one of those been there, done that kinda things.

 

[nubian]

Wise advice!

I still have "couples are cool" written in my Manhunt profile, but I'm probably gonna change it soon. It's exceptionally rare to find a couple without unduly inhibiting limits where I find myself attracted to each equally. That "third wheel" syndrome and all its associated hurt feelings usually result.

I was once at a Memorial Day pool party (no trunks allowed) that got very messy indeed when I (unknowingly) topped an otherwise non-versatile top (coulda fooled me) and freaked out his partner (who wouldn't have topped with a gun to his head). I was later told by the host that their relationship didn't withstand that encounter.

Most likely, there's one who's hotter or more interesting than his partner. Much as I try to integrate the "other" into the play, as likely as not he winds up fetching water or changing the DVD (presuming porn is playing, and it nearly always is).

Then there's the "alpha male" scenario where I bring the bottom to a specific place his partner hasn't yet. That can be very, very troubling for the top in the relationship, who either breaks things up or attempts to dominate me (which won't happen, thanks).

Then there's the scenario where they're both bottoms and I'm little more than a human dildo: no thanks.

Then there's the scenario where the couple has played either just with each other or some other person/people before I arrive and their energy levels don't correspond. The one with lower energy, despite having excused himself to "get some rest", is frequently known to pop his head in periodically asking if we're "done yet".

The creepiest scenario I've encountered recently involved a kind of gay cuckold/SPH thing, which I found really pathetic: I left in less than an hour with no one having been satisfied.

In my experience, the best reliable scenario for threesomes and larger groups involves strangers or fuck buddies: there's much less baggage. And speaking of baggage: depersonalize the playspace, please. Nothing is less arousing than seeing framed photos of friends and family clustered on the bookcase headboard or top of the dresser: trust me on this.

 

[driftingvoid]

I'm in a serious relationship, and we've had a couple threesomes. I think we would both like to do them more, and we've talked about it a few times; we just haven't actually gotten around to doing it. I don't have many male friends who I would both trust around my gf and feel comfortable in a threesome environment; conversely, my gf doesn't have many attractive female friends nearby. Though we've been together for a long time, we're still pretty iffy about flirting too much with the opposite sex, so that's a big reason we haven't had any new threesomes in awhile.
That said, I think that if we could just get over ourselves, threesomes would enhance our relationship rather than hurt it. The ones we had were very fun, and we all enjoyed ourselves; we also didn't have any problems after the fact. I think they're great for adding variety to a relationship-- I don't mean to say, by any stretch, that I don't love my girlfriend; however, I've been with her for a long time now, and considering that I don't cheat on her, the opportunity to "legit-ly" add another girl to the mix interests me. And I'm sure that, though she probably wouldn't admit it to me, she'd be pretty excited to have someone new in the bed from time to time.

I would say, though, that if you're considering doing it while in a serious relationship, you should definitely have a serious conversation with your significant other and really get everything out on the table. If one person isn't really into it, and is only doing it because their significant other seems really excited, it can cause problems. And both of you need to be really comfortable with each other, and that you'll continue to be together after opening up your relationship.

Best of luck..

 

[D_Nycholsonne Nutpayne]

havent yet but its everyguys fantasy to have one.

 

[catman]

with my late wife- no
with another couple-yes

 

[Jaimdoggie]

I did not have a three-way with my ex-wife, but I did with a couple ex-girlfriends. It neither augmented or detracted from any of those relationships. It was just a fun thing.