B_Nicodemous
Experimental Member
Ok, Mr. Bas...
Well I for one would be worried if someone based a "lets bump uglies right now" based on a haircut:tongue:
True enough. (Though I think you will not be sexless forever)
No problem. Sometimes people who are not in similar situations simply have no basis for what they say. I had friends tell me just to leave, it will work out, my sis and her family would figure something out, bladda, bladda, bleah. But I am not like that. Now some of these same people are in similar boats, and have been a tad more understanding.
Your new sig is much improved, though there is something off about the flow of the second line. I can't quite define it. I see where you wanted to go, but it's not working as well as I think it could. I'll try to pinpoint it tomorrow...
...I am like two degrees of cyber-separation from the lead editor of Cracked.com...please forgive me while I geek out....:biggrin1::redface:
The bitch who told you that isn't even worth the effort for me to type some scathing comment about her stretched out fortress of skank-titude being the reason she needed larger....
Look, some people are going to prefer more girth. Most of them will have more tact then that cuntrag in explaining that need. As for your desire to stretch a girl out, well, if she wants that feeling, you and a future gal could always explore the wonderful world of toys out there. Hey get a clone-a-willy kit and have a double vag with yourself!:biggrin1::tongue:Or if it goes that way, find a third to explore that possibility with.
And that's assuming there even is a need to do that. Everyone is different; so though it is good to already be thinking ahead towards possible scenarios, and coming to your comfort level with them in advance, don't get sooo preoccupied with them that you feel you will have to do them with whoever you end up with. There may never be the need.
Why won't you be able to use yours for another five months?
Well said.
I used to wonder how many of the guys who had waited in line to fuck me at the parties were actually attracted to me, or just the idea of fucking someone who others (in their minds) found desirable who happened to be desirable themselves. Or, in other words, were they attracted to me, or the fantasy of some hot guy whom all these other guys (some very good looking) were into. I don't kid myself about my looks (I think I look fine, but I am in no way drop dead gorgeous) so early on I concluded it was the scene and not really me that they were most attracted to. Whatever. It was fun for what it was, but after awhile it was kind of off-putting to know that outside of that place they really had no interest in me as a person. Separating the fantasy from the reality let me enjoy it for what it was, until it was no longer enjoyable for me. Maybe not what you meant, but your post did help me to better clarify my earlier post.
Not being a size queen myself, I will offer a guess. Since everyone's anatomy is slightly different, and than made more different when combined with one's unique psychological profile and experiences, some people may need the longer or fatter cock to satisfy a physical quirk (greater distance from vag entrance to clit, less sensitive nerves that need more stimuli to register anything, nerves that register pressure more than friction, etc), to psychological ones (had great experience with a large cock and is looking to recapture that feeling, has been programmed by society to only think larger is better...)
For them a smaller penis may just not satisfy them. It is up to you whether or not you want to try and satisfy one of them (by whatever means necessary) or, and this is probably wiser move, find someone who is more sexually compatible with you on all levels.
Yes there are...and there are just as many who get off on auditory stimuli, or driven by smells, or tactile oriented. And don't forget mental stimulation. These are things that rank far higher, for me at least, than visual stimulation. (Example: listening to porn, with eyes closed, is more satisfying for me than if I had to watch it sans sound)
Which is saying she likes the pic. I guess that sorta counts. It's not the same as "OMFG I need to bang you right now!" but I very rarely see any posts like that here or anywhere.
Well I for one would be worried if someone based a "lets bump uglies right now" based on a haircut:tongue:
Well, when you consider some of the horrible shit some people have to deal with me having to go sexless isn't that bad. If that's the worst thing I ever have to deal with I might be lucky in some ways.
True enough. (Though I think you will not be sexless forever)
Thanks for understanding that.
No problem. Sometimes people who are not in similar situations simply have no basis for what they say. I had friends tell me just to leave, it will work out, my sis and her family would figure something out, bladda, bladda, bleah. But I am not like that. Now some of these same people are in similar boats, and have been a tad more understanding.
How's the new one?
Your new sig is much improved, though there is something off about the flow of the second line. I can't quite define it. I see where you wanted to go, but it's not working as well as I think it could. I'll try to pinpoint it tomorrow...
I've corresponded with the lead editor of Cracked. He posts in a skeptic forum I also belong to. Were all kinda wiseasses there.
...I am like two degrees of cyber-separation from the lead editor of Cracked.com...please forgive me while I geek out....:biggrin1::redface:
Fair enough. I just had a hard time dealing with being on the smaller side girthwise. I've always loved the idea of women liking to be stretched out a bit--I guess that's why I'd love to be part of a double vag--so it was a real blow when I measured it and saw I was sub-average. Honestly, until then, I had always just figured I was in the neighborhood of normal. That one size queen telling me to get lost because I didn't have the 8 x 6 she demanded being the only other time I felt inadequate and that's what led to me eventually measuring it.
The bitch who told you that isn't even worth the effort for me to type some scathing comment about her stretched out fortress of skank-titude being the reason she needed larger....
Look, some people are going to prefer more girth. Most of them will have more tact then that cuntrag in explaining that need. As for your desire to stretch a girl out, well, if she wants that feeling, you and a future gal could always explore the wonderful world of toys out there. Hey get a clone-a-willy kit and have a double vag with yourself!:biggrin1::tongue:Or if it goes that way, find a third to explore that possibility with.
And that's assuming there even is a need to do that. Everyone is different; so though it is good to already be thinking ahead towards possible scenarios, and coming to your comfort level with them in advance, don't get sooo preoccupied with them that you feel you will have to do them with whoever you end up with. There may never be the need.
Please do! I can't use mine for another five months at least, so it'll be nice to experience them vicariously
Why won't you be able to use yours for another five months?
It's not about being forgiving. The vagina has a whole lot of pleasurable spots, and smaller guys can still hit many of them. So sex is still good. Simple as that.
Well said.
Not for nothing, but I work 5 nights per week nearly naked and get approached nearly continuously. It actually means very little to me personally: they are attracted to the image, not the reality.
If I really took it all seriously, I'd be be in major big trouble. Illusion and reality are very different beasts.
I used to wonder how many of the guys who had waited in line to fuck me at the parties were actually attracted to me, or just the idea of fucking someone who others (in their minds) found desirable who happened to be desirable themselves. Or, in other words, were they attracted to me, or the fantasy of some hot guy whom all these other guys (some very good looking) were into. I don't kid myself about my looks (I think I look fine, but I am in no way drop dead gorgeous) so early on I concluded it was the scene and not really me that they were most attracted to. Whatever. It was fun for what it was, but after awhile it was kind of off-putting to know that outside of that place they really had no interest in me as a person. Separating the fantasy from the reality let me enjoy it for what it was, until it was no longer enjoyable for me. Maybe not what you meant, but your post did help me to better clarify my earlier post.
[/COLOR]Then what's the point in even being a size queen?
Not being a size queen myself, I will offer a guess. Since everyone's anatomy is slightly different, and than made more different when combined with one's unique psychological profile and experiences, some people may need the longer or fatter cock to satisfy a physical quirk (greater distance from vag entrance to clit, less sensitive nerves that need more stimuli to register anything, nerves that register pressure more than friction, etc), to psychological ones (had great experience with a large cock and is looking to recapture that feeling, has been programmed by society to only think larger is better...)
For them a smaller penis may just not satisfy them. It is up to you whether or not you want to try and satisfy one of them (by whatever means necessary) or, and this is probably wiser move, find someone who is more sexually compatible with you on all levels.
Okay. However there are lots of visually oriented people out there.
Yes there are...and there are just as many who get off on auditory stimuli, or driven by smells, or tactile oriented. And don't forget mental stimulation. These are things that rank far higher, for me at least, than visual stimulation. (Example: listening to porn, with eyes closed, is more satisfying for me than if I had to watch it sans sound)