Have you ever had an orgasm in front of someone you weren't having sex with?

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  1. Drifterwood

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    I have to say that I haven't, though my definition of havng sex with someone may be slightly different to yours. I mean in front of anyone that was present who wasn't actively involved in the sexual activity going on.

    I wonder if this is a boundary of sexual liberation, in that you are so comfortable with yourself as a sexually functioning human that you would feel no shame nor embarassment at the the expression of your sexuality. I think that this is slightly different from being an exhibitionist.
     
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    :rofl: Who me? :lmao: I can't even finger myself on cam w/o getting nervous and drying up. :redface:

    Come to think of it, I have had sex in a room where other people were having sex, but I don't think I ever came in those instances.
     
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    I wonder if those who say that they can't orgasm at all during sex have the same issues - namely being at ease with everything that is going on.
     
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    I did wonder if you ment camming.
    But in those instances it is a mutual show mine/show yours type deal.
    Not physically having sex but the desire, lust, drive and bond is there.

    In that case the answer is YES (and then some).
     
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    Oh yeah. More times than I can recall. We're talking big numbers. Very big turn on for me.
     
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    I doubt I could get that far in the same room with a woman without it having turned into sex.
     
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    Yes, there've been a couple of diff ladies who just wanted to watch as I whacked away. Rather thrilling, actually.
     
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    Once in a gay sex club; did myself on a couch in the dark video room while others were there. Got up after to grab paper towel.

    Another time on cam in AdultFriendFinder. Got mixed ratings by four watching.

    Why does my grammar get worse when I describe these things?:rolleyes:
     
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    I did sometimes, while dancing. Not that I advertised that it had happened; it's for me supposed to be a private thing.
     
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    In a three some....simultaneousness is a difficulty there....
     
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    A few men have answered this one, but I'll answer it on behalf of my former mistress. She came during a threesome with me and her girlfriend, and they were holding hands while I did the oral. She genuinely came, 'cause I knew her well enough to know it was real.
     
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    I once saw a girl have a full on orgasm while inhaling nitrous oxide for the first time. Arched back, screaming, legs twiching, completely spontaneously. We were all slack jawed and stunned. She was naturally quite embarrassed.
     
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    Many, many times.
     
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    Did this happen on the dentist chair? :33:
     
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    I was doing a photo shoot. It was just me and the male photographer and he wanted me to get hard. I started stroking and got it hard but went too far and spurted all over the floor. Oops.
     
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    oh please! i can't stop orgasming period :)

    All jokes aside, i have never been in this situation but i honestly don't think it would matter.
     
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    Pretty much happens every other weekend, and it's impossible for my wife to fake it :)
     
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    Many times on webcam and i keep counting :))
    Add me if you dont believe. kafatdar@yahoo.com :)
     
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    ...Yes...
     
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    Is that pretty unusual? I bet it's not in the informed consent. "You may have a spontaneous orgasm in the dentist's office if you choose nitrous oxide."