Have you ever had to tell someone to stop giving you a BJ

[deleted3782]

Yup. Several years ago I met someone that I liked as a friend but had no romantic interest in. Unfortunately he felt otherwise, and kept asking if he could suck my dick. Over and over he asked, becoming more insistent...and I had absolutely no sexual interest in him. One evening we were on my back porch drinking beers, and he started asking again and saying he was so good at it and I wouldn't regret it. I got mad...and said "Fine, do it".

He got down on his knees, had to unwrap it, and started sucking my dick. It took me a while to get hard, I didn't even want to watch him. It did very little for me. It felt slightly good, but the fact that this guy was sucking me was a huge turn off. He kept going, and going and going. He sucked me for an hour and my dick started getting raw, and I made him stop. He wanted to keep sucking but it was beginning to hurt. he went home. I lost a lot of faith in the guy...and I didn't want to use him the way he seemed to want me to use him. We soon quit calling each other and the friendship ended.

 

[SlamminSammy]

Yes! A little over a year ago, a girl was blowing me & she was awful in every way, seemed like she was just slobering all over my cock so I pulled it out of her mouth, fucked her tits & gave her a huge facial.

 

[D_Sam Rockswell]

Didn't have to. Just stopped her out of consideration. She started getting tired and a bit pissed off cause it was taking so long.

 

[pomaz59]

yupp, it happened to me. my glans is really sensitive and my first girlfriend was kind of aggressive. there was this one time, where my glas somehow got hyper sensitive, so the way she blew me really-really hurt. i tried to send some signals to her, but since she kept sucking me rough, i had to tell her to stop. it was awkward and she was really pissed

 

[businessmang]

i tell girls to stop after a while because i have yet to cum from a bj, dunno if its because they suck or of its just me

 

[716967]

I was about 2 cum & it was the guys´ 1st time...I didn´t want him to worry afterwards about diseases...so I told him 2 stop (that´s happened more than once)

 

[Frnkd213]

I few times in my married life I had to take over as once I sense that she is not "craving" my dick it's hard for me to cum. She would get tired and make it obvious that I should just fuck her and cum. Side note we always start with me eating her out, where she usually cums more than once than she'll work on me. I like to think that my skills in eating pussy is that good, but won't know unless I have an opportunity to eat others. That will never happen.

I try not to make it obvious that I can tell that she's not into it at the moment. Though i would like to cum from a bj rather than just from fucking at least she doesn't mind me jacking my self off.

So the answer is yes I have had to in a passive way.

 

[rick65]

YES, but it preceded with "Whatever your doing, it's not working"!

 

[docilej]

This happened a number of times during my (failed) marriage. Personally I think she gave bad head on purpose- she hating the act so much that eventually she wouldn't have to perform it anymore. Hurray...mission accomplished!!!

 

[Frnkd213]

YES, but it preceded with "Whatever your doing, it's not working"!

LMAO!

 

[zombyalive]

the truth is that i like it rough too, i like it fast, i like having my dick bitten even. but still, with two different people, i had to pull away. this one girl was jacking my dick so fast she was pushing the blood OUT of it, like wtf come on this isn't a race. i was larger than the person she was with, and i guess he liked it that way. i felt like she was trying to duplicate the speed on me but i was a few inches longer and it was ridiculous. and i even like it fast. i just pushed her down and turned her around, told her to hold on. the shortest pussy i've fucked.

 

[latinojk3]

Ya one time da girl was doing a bad job...like she sucked @ it so I told her I wanted to start fuckin so I just started pounding away