Hey peeps!
A few months ago, I asked for some advice on what to do about my boyfriend who is moving to London to study. Until last month we were studying at the same university here in the UK, but now he's got a place in London and I've moved back in with my parents in Wales.
I really love this guy but part of me feels resentful that he's moved away to study, leaving me to try and figure out a way to be with him next year. I have no savings at all and I'm currently working part-time in a supermarket to bring in some money at least. I'm worried about what I'm going to do career-wise and I'm trying to keep this relationship together... it's stressing me out! On the one hand, I want to stay with him and on the other, I'm upset that he's moving to an expensive city which I don't particularly like. I've been there to visit him twice already and I've told him the way I feel about London.
Personally, I don't think I could handle a long-distance relationship. In the time I've been back in Wales and he's been in London, we've had countless fights about what's going on - he's being more distant than before and he's busy trying to settle down there. I know he loves me though, and it kills me that I can't be with him in London for the reasons I mentioned above.
I hate this so much! I've convinced myself that we have to finish because of the circumstances, but the thought of not having him as my boyfriend is too much. I wish he'd take this seriously but he's the kind of guy who follows his instinct and doesn't over-think like I do.
The only good thing that's going on is that I'll be visiting him and his family in Italy for two weeks in August. He's leaving the UK after our graduation ceremony next week and I won't see him until I arrive in Italy.
Can anyone help me? Have you ever moved to stay with someone you love, even if you didn't really like it?
A few months ago, I asked for some advice on what to do about my boyfriend who is moving to London to study. Until last month we were studying at the same university here in the UK, but now he's got a place in London and I've moved back in with my parents in Wales.
I really love this guy but part of me feels resentful that he's moved away to study, leaving me to try and figure out a way to be with him next year. I have no savings at all and I'm currently working part-time in a supermarket to bring in some money at least. I'm worried about what I'm going to do career-wise and I'm trying to keep this relationship together... it's stressing me out! On the one hand, I want to stay with him and on the other, I'm upset that he's moving to an expensive city which I don't particularly like. I've been there to visit him twice already and I've told him the way I feel about London.
Personally, I don't think I could handle a long-distance relationship. In the time I've been back in Wales and he's been in London, we've had countless fights about what's going on - he's being more distant than before and he's busy trying to settle down there. I know he loves me though, and it kills me that I can't be with him in London for the reasons I mentioned above.
I hate this so much! I've convinced myself that we have to finish because of the circumstances, but the thought of not having him as my boyfriend is too much. I wish he'd take this seriously but he's the kind of guy who follows his instinct and doesn't over-think like I do.
The only good thing that's going on is that I'll be visiting him and his family in Italy for two weeks in August. He's leaving the UK after our graduation ceremony next week and I won't see him until I arrive in Italy.
Can anyone help me? Have you ever moved to stay with someone you love, even if you didn't really like it?