Have you ever paid for it?

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  1. Antin

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    It seems there has been an increased interest among some groups of women in buying sex and/or intimacy of late. Busy professionals who do not have time for dating, single women who feel they need a break from the dating scene but feel liberated in their sexuality enough to pay a well trained massage therapist/gigilo to "work out their kinks" with no strings attached, married women who still love their family but feel they need a little more nurturing and attention so they pay for some discrete cuddle on the side. I am not talking about women who can't get any, I am talking about women who have specific needs they want met and find it easier, safer, more convienent and without the drama to get it with cash.

    So, here are the questions: Have you or would you ever pay for it?
    If yes, what did or would you want from the experience and what would be the most important qualities you would look for in your provider?
     
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    Market research, Antin? Thinking of a career change?
     
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    Every time I come online at LPSG!:biggrin1:
     
  4. Antin

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    :biggrin1: Kinda...I have been getting more and more requests for extra services lately. And a couple of my close female friends are saying I should do it. But I am not sure about it yet...it would have to be something completely separate from my current practice.
     
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    LOL, live the dream, brother!
     
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    I have to approach this question from the "If I were Single" perspective.

    So if I were single, I would not pay for sex. Why?

    A number of reasons.

    First, even though it is a great fantasy to have an attractive man who is an incredible lover lavish attention on you, I don't think I could suspend reality enough to enjoy it if I knew he was only in it for the money.

    Secondly, even if you use a condom, there is still a risk of getting an STD, and having sex with a man who has had multitudes of partners is riskier than having sex with a...regular guy. (I think.)

    I suppose there could be regular testing and paperwork like there is in the porn industry, but I still don't know that I'd want to risk it, just for the sake of a night of pleasure, or whatever.

    I'd shop around for a good guy, a keeper, and take my time getting to know him. (If my sexual needs got out of hand, I'd just masturbate like crazy until I felt better, not hire a gigolo.)

    Of course, I don't think I could ever find a man who would measure up to the one I already have.

    ToolMan, I hope you stick around for a long, long time.
     
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    Thanks for the input Chrysalis...I appreciate it. What would you say if it were just digital stimulation as an extra little add on to a massage?
     
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    Umm...if I were single, and the guy was cute, then probably...

    yes.:redface:
     
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    Hey Chuck,

    What is life for it not to dream...LOL
     
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    Interesting....thanks Chrysalis
     
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    Hey Chrysalis, (I like your name btw)

    Do you ever get massage?
     
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    Back when I was in college and all the guys were impossible to deal with and insane, I would fantasize about paying an older, experienced, attentive, attractive man to have sex with and have no strings attached.

    But, however good it sounds in theory, I wonder what the real life problems would be and if they would be the same/similar as the problems with female male and male male prostitution.

    Also, as I've gotten older, I've realized that it's not that hard, as a woman, to get laid without paying for it.

    It's still an intrigueing concept to me.

    Snooz
     
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    Thanks for your reply Snooz, I have been reading some posts on other sites here and there and I am finding that a lot of women find it intriguing and many who when asked about the "Stud Farm" brothel openning up outside of Vegas, say that it is about time that women have the same options as men when it comes to for lack of a better terms fantasy and release.
     
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    Yes, but not that kind (except from my husband.):wink:

    However, I do prefer a male massage therapist. No offense to women, but after I got up the nerve to see my first male MT, I knew I would never go back.

    I like very deep massage, and men are quite simply stronger and have more body weight, if that is necessary to facilitate the massage. Also, your hands are larger and don't feel so "pokey."
     
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    That is nearly the exact response I get from all of my female clients on their preferences for a male massage therapist.
    And thanks for the tip on the book...what did you like about it?
     
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    It made me hot.:wink:

    Totally unrealistic though...a fantasy. But a good one.
     
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    I just read the blurb and excerpt...it is unrealistic but it looks like it could be very entertaining.

    So was it the premise of the rent-a-stud or was it the way the scenes were written that made you hot?
     
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    not sex, but ive got an ex or 2 that i think ive paid the price for..

    Glad they are gone :wink:
     
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