Have You Ever Paid For Sex With Another Man?

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I've paid guys numerous times. "Gay4pay" guys that otherwise wouldn't play unless it's for money, straight guys who I offered the right number who then decided to go for it, guys on sleepyboy (UK site) who are gay/bi but don't need any more FWBs/hookups and would insist on playing for money, and sugar babies. It's easy to find someone who will do xyz on an app, so I've never really rented anyone specifically to try a certain kink. It's just for guys I'm dying to play with who require money to meet or someone I'd like to spoil. I know the game, I've played both sides before.
 

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A few times. More out of curiosity or boredom. One guy was really great (he had won a Hookie). The rest were so-so at best. I hired twins once because I’ve always had a huge fantasy of being with brothers. When I got to their hotel they refused to do anything with each other. I think one of them fucked me but I can’t remember.
 
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No, never felt the need or desire for it. If I am going through a dry spell, I'll just get through it.
I have no issues with those who offer that service or those who partake, so that's not a problem. In fact, I've personally known a number of male escorts, all fine guys.

It's just not my thing plus they kinda charge a whole lot more than I feel like paying for something I could get for free, albeit the services they offer do tend to be a bit more "custom made" than some random guy off an app or hooking up with some dude in a club.
 
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No, never felt the need or desire for it. If I am going through a dry spell, I'll just get through it.
I have no issues with those who offer that service or those who partake, so that's not a problem. In fact, I've personally known a number of male escorts, all fine guys.

It's just not my thing plus they kinda charge a whole lot more than I feel like paying for something I could get for free, albeit the services they offer do tend to be a bit more "custom made" than some random guy off an app or hooking up with some dude in a club.
You’re paying for a fantasy with an escort. Good escorts will make you feel like they are really into you and listen to what you want (both as a person and sexually speaking). If you just want to fuck, hire a prostitute.
 
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I always said I would never pay for something I could get free. And then I had a guy come over one night. It was a one-time hookup, but damn! He was hot as hell. The sex was hot as hell. I know I enjoyed it very much. And I'm guessing he enjoyed it because he was messaging me about coming over again. And of course I said yes.

Then it became he was always needing gas money to come over. At first it was $10. But then it became $20 each time. I usually gave it to him, but I told him that I was having a hard time giving him money each time. It really felt wrong to me. He said he understood, and the next few times, he didn't ask. But one night, I surprised him. I got us a hotel room, got him the beer he wanted and we had a great time. And he started asking for $20 again. I paid him a few more times, but then he got arrested for beating up a woman and I never talked to him again. I think he left the area.

Needless to say, I do miss having sex with him and his huge dick. I've been looking at escorts online. I might have to try one (or three) out.
 
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I always said I would never pay for something I could get free. And then I had a guy come over one night. It was a one-time hookup, but damn! He was hot as hell. The sex was hot as hell. I know I enjoyed it very much. And I'm guessing he enjoyed it because he was messaging me about coming over again. And of course I said yes.

Then it became he was always needing gas money to come over. At first it was $10. But then it became $20 each time. I usually gave it to him, but I told him that I was having a hard time giving him money each time. It really felt wrong to me. He said he understood, and the next few times, he didn't ask. But one night, I surprised him. I got us a hotel room, got him the beer he wanted and we had a great time. And he started asking for $20 again. I paid him a few more times, but then he got arrested for beating up a woman and I never talked to him again. I think he left the area.

Needless to say, I do miss having sex with him and his huge dick. I've been looking at escorts online. I might have to try one (or three) out.
You will pay for sex no matter what the situation. Married, not married. Straight bi gay....one way or another you will pay. May not be money, but it most certainly will cost you something.
 

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Yes, some guy on Grindr offered to suck my dick and asked if he could get money for gas. He was way cuter than someone I thought would normally hit on me and since I was in a dry spell I didn't mind giving him some cash. It was money well spent ;)
 

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It’d be refreshing to pay someone to please you as it’s a business transaction where you request/demand the service you require.

I presume that escorts most of the time try to give you a good time so you can invite them again.

So many times I’ve been disappointed when hookups think of their own pleasure and have left me unsatisfied.

Choosing the perfect guy and the services he offers would be benefit if you have a great experience.
 

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Yes, some guy on Grindr offered to suck my dick and asked if he could get money for gas. He was way cuter than someone I thought would normally hit on me and since I was in a dry spell I didn't mind giving him some cash. It was money well spent ;)
If it was worth the money, I’m pumped you got what you wanted. That’s a beautiful thing.
 

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It’d be refreshing to pay someone to please you as it’s a business transaction where you request/demand the service you require.

I presume that escorts most of the time try to give you a good time so you can invite them again.

So many times I’ve been disappointed when hookups think of their own pleasure and have left me unsatisfied.

Choosing the perfect guy and the services he offers would be benefit if you have a great experience.
The world would be a lot more loving and less aggressive if dudes in particular could have legal services like this. There is so much pent up male aggression from guys not being able to connect sexually with someone that it IMO leads to violence. Men need to get off to stay sane.
 

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The world would be a lot more loving and less aggressive if dudes in particular could have legal services like this. There is so much pent up male aggression from guys not being able to connect sexually with someone that it IMO leads to violence. Men need to get off to stay sane.
You make a good point.
Some guys are socially inept and after watching porn for example, they need a release and can resort to rape.
Escort sites allow you to choose from a menu of options and they don’t have to hang around for breakfast either
 
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I've had 2 guys that I had been long time "friends with benefits", they both had long term girlfriends who had no idea what was happening. One of the guys would always ask for money with a sob story to go with it, regularly saying if I didn't give him the money he wouldn't be into seeing me any more, I always told him I wouldn't give him any money, yet he kept coming back anyway. The other guy would occasionally ask for some money to get some cigarettes or petrol & I would give it to him because I knew if I was to ask him & he could afford to give me some money he would. But I have never sought out guys to pay them for sex.
 
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The world would be a lot more loving and less aggressive if dudes in particular could have legal services like this. There is so much pent up male aggression from guys not being able to connect sexually with someone that it IMO leads to violence. Men need to get off to stay sane.

WTF? There are plenty of men raped/abused their partners and got off on a daily basis. Yet, they’re still violent as fuck!

Some people are just violent assholes!
 

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WTF? There are plenty of men raped/abused their partners and got off on a daily basis. Yet, they’re still violent as fuck!

Some people are just violent assholes!
I’m not disagreeing with you. I’m just saying there are dudes who need to connect and either can’t or aren’t willing to. Think Aaron Hernandez. Macho dude who wouldn’t accept that he was gay (and would not let himself find an out for it) and ended up murdering a dude and committing suicide just to prove to himself that he was a “man”. What a complete waste of others lives and of course his own. This is just one example. There are plenty of straight dudes who for one reason or another can’t or don’t know how to interact with women. They are left with porn which will not teach them how to date and be intimate with another person. So they get frustrated, resentful and subconsciously (IMO) lash out. It’s sad and it doesn’t have to happen. Yes there are some really truly evil people out there. I’m not talking about that group. I’m talking about the dudes that need a connection and don’t know how or are too insecure to try.
 

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Absolutely not. An escort once followed me to my hotel room, and wouldn't leave. Not wanting to have a scene, I finally handed him 20 bucks, told him to get a decent meal, and slammed the door.

At a different time (but, oddly, the same hotel) I had a friend staying in the room with me, because he had trouble getting a room reservation on a very busy weekend. (Did I mention he was a hot Columbian porn star?) Some bitter old queen comes up to me in the parking lot on the second day, shakes his finger at me, and says "and just how much are you paying him?" I answer "Nothing, he's a friend, but last night would run you about 1200."
 

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I’ll put a contrarian perspective out there…

I’ve been paying guys since I was in my mid-20s. I’m not ugly, fat, etc. I have all of my teeth and hair. I’m very well-adjusted socially. I started doing it for a few reasons. First, doing so guarantees the sex is hot (or nearly guarantees it). I have not had bad sex since college and I have not been naked with any guy who was not in my mind a 9 or a 10. Few people can say the same. Second, paying entirely avoids flaking on the other guy’s part. Sometimes I flake and they just roll with it, but they never flake. Third, if you’re not ugly, it’s a setup for an upside surprise for them. In my experience, many guys who say yes to an offer made online and then show up and see I’m not ugly think, “damn, this does not suck… I want to see him again”. They then court me, I play it as cool as I feel like, and it usually turns into a consistent thing because of the psychological setup of the whole thing and the chase being reversed. After a while, the guy who is chasing forgets he is chasing the money (even though you’re still paying him) and is merely focused on getting you to say yes to meeting again.

I have dated guys I initially paid (where it then turned int a long-term, non-paid scenario) and I have had long-term paid fuck buds (10+ years).

Also, guys who are willing to hookup for money usually are better in bed. They fuck like it’s their job… because it is (at least when they are with you... it's less risky to convert normal guys vs. hiring pros).

A huge number of hot guys have at least 1 or 2 guys in their life who pay them. It’s much more common than you think. I just wish people would not be so ashamed of it. Personally, the idea of courting someone and going on a bunch of dates is not only uninteresting, but I think it also turns the encounter into more a scripted romantic comedy scenario, which doesn’t turn me on at all.

Mind you, I’m not particularly romantic and I am transactional by nature in all things. I respect that not everyone (or perhaps not even most) think this way.

But, there’s nothing shameful about paying for sex.
 

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Only once, and it was for a "massage".
I knew he was gay, his massage studio is in a gay neighborhood in DC, and when I walked in he asked if I wanted a regular massage or erotic.

I of course said erotic. He had a huge beautiful uncut cock and I was sucking on it while still on my belly. So I was rock hard when I turned over, and he moved right into sucking and hand job.
Within minutes he was up on the table sinking into my cock. Soon, we were on the floor doggy style.
He was great fun at a time when I needed pure fun with no strings. But it was a terrible massage!
We still message several times a year. I won't pay him again, but I'd fuck him 7 days a week.