I had a roommate who was very conflicted about his dick size. I think it has something to do with his being conflicted about his sexuality. This guy is conflicted about just about everything. I caught him at the computer a few times--my computer, he didn't have one--but he would try to close all the windows as rapidly as possible and hide immediately. Always hiding. We started out as friends, or so I imagined, but he is so impersonal that I ended up not liking him very much.
I'm six foot, a hundred and sixty-five or seventy pounds with a 7"x6" dick--a little above average. This guy's dick is the same as mine if not bigger--very thick at the base, but he's 5'4" and weighs 125 or 130. I could pick him up and carry him around like a baby. He is the youngest of five boys. That and his stature is probably why he's an easy target for teasing.
He wears size twenty-eight waist and you can tell he's packing--he's a shower also--but he never takes advantage of this obvious equalizer. Some short guys have big heads, short necks, big bellies, but he's built proportionately and works out. He is attractive. He's got the small man syndrome--puffing up, walking sideways so as to present a larger silhouette, preening, meticulous dress, grooming, etc. That and the bulge, people are curious about his sexuality--which probably makes him more conflicted. Then people poke fun at him for being tiny. If I were him, I'd say something like, "You're the tiny one. Sit on this!" (point suggestively to crotch bulge).
He's thirty-five. If he were younger I'd think differently, especially after reading the posts here. After living with him for three and a half years and being acquainted with him for nine or ten years total I never got to know him, and not for a lack of effort on my part. I came to the conclusion that he doesn't know himself well enough to broadcast a personality.
I agree with others here that it is mostly accepted that a large basket is a good thing on a male, even though people are awkward and don't realize it can be awkward, just as some females have uncomfortably large breasts. Everyone else loves it. If attention is focused on you because you have an amputation or a disability, that may be unpleasant. If attention is focused on your crotch rocket, that may be pleasant--and who gives a fuck if anyone sees it? That's what they want. Those of us who are more exhibitionistic can't figure out why you'd hide it. Be gracious, learn to be flattered and learn to be comfortable in your skin. (If you're lucky enough to have kept your 'skin).