Like I said, it's not always about a date. Sometimes it's just about looking good while kicking it with friends at the mall. Most guys on this site seem to be fine with the underwear with built in cock rings and super lifter pouches, I think I chick would chuckle at that too. It's not about getting caught. There's a lot of things guys on this site do that people would make fun of if they found out. The point is that if it make you feel more confident, then you shouldn't feel bad about doing it.