without including your boyfriend/husband in your decision? Intentionally skip birth control and whatnot?
I got pregnant on my honeymoon. We were young and had not even discussed it. I quit birth control six months before I got married. Again, without any conversation. It was very selfish of me. I wanted to be a mother more than a wife, and that's exactly what I became. I did not know what kind of asshole he would become as a father. So it all worked out for the best possible outcome of that situation, but not the best possible outcome.
Yes I had tried. Not in a deceptive kind of way either. I had to do fertility treatments and I had a best guy friend on stand by that agreed to be my donor.
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No. But I have wondered if a couple of dudes would go so far as to slyly try to impregnate me.
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No way in hell.
My kiddo, though I love her, was a gift of the universe. That I didn't ask for, and never planned on.
She knows she is her own incarnation. That she controls her existence.
Manipulating with pregnancy is low.
My kiddo, though I love her, was a gift of the universe. That I didn't ask for, and never planned on.
She knows she is her own incarnation. That she controls her existence.
Manipulating with pregnancy is low.
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No. Having a child is such a life changing event that I wouldn't dream of making that decision on my own without talking to the other person first.
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Sometimes. People often talk about women getting baby crazy, but I have never been, and I have know some men who have been pretty persistent about wanting me to get pregnant. Typically, that's the beginning of the end in my relationships. But, my current dude seems to want to try with me in a couple of years, and that sounds good to me.dudes are the worst
no way, having a child is a huge life changing event, i would want my partner to be on board with it. that said, we did it twice, once was an accident that we weren't prepared for, the second was planned but happened faster than expected. they are the best things in my life
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No ways! It's not fair to anyone and very deceitful. What would you say to the child? Sounds like a recipe for disaster and shame.
No.
Though if the guy was perfect, as in both looks, personality, husband and father material, the thought would deviously cross my mind
ButIi still wouldn't 'cause it's a shitty thing to do.
Though if the guy was perfect, as in both looks, personality, husband and father material, the thought would deviously cross my mind
ButIi still wouldn't 'cause it's a shitty thing to do.
No. Not ever. I have one child but it wasn't planned nor did I particularly want a kid at the time.
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