Well, I'm not scared (or embarrassed) here--
[quote author=jonb link=board=women;num=1072104756;start=0#13 date=12/29/03 at 19:29:51]
"... If a man turns down a BJ, you don't have a man. You have a eunuch..."
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I would turn down a BJ and I'm certainly no eunuch!
(sorry jonb! --to disprove your theory
I would have my reasons to turn down a randomly arranged BJ and they would pretty much be moral reasons, moral choices---pure and simple.
While perhaps being flattered to be asked, I would want something "more meaningful" behind the act.
'Guess I'm showing my age, my changing attitudes, (hopefully good judgment)--whatever!
But, I can't be the only guy who feels this way!
I don't care, really. I simply will not "cheapen" an otherwise meaningful (most pleasurable!) sexual act for myself by settling to get it via some unknown stranger. I tend to want to reserve fellatio for a more opportune time ...from the one I love and trust, and am very much COMMITTED to.