Now actually I'm pretty humble (no John Holes over here), but considering last nights events... I just thought this might be an interesting topic. Have you ever had a partner claim "You've ruined me." or something the like ie meaning most everyone else doesn't measure up. Sub-topic: Considering that my ex could possible come calling making this statement, what should be my reply? And yes "You ruined me." is an exact quote... it makes me smile when I hear it.