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So, as the title suggests, have you had sex with someone you weren't attracted to physically, but whom had something about them that intrigued you, that you felt compelled to have sex? For example, someone who you don't normally find attractive physically, but after talking to them, you had sex? IF so, why? what caused you to want to have sex? What kind of sex was it? How, in the end, did this encounter(s) end? Would you recommend it? Also, it's open for discussion, and feel free to say anything you want.
 

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Back when I used to cruise the local adult bookstore a lot, there was a guy who came in most afternoons. He had a nice body but he wasn't attractive at all. I am always curious about cocks, and as always, I wanted to see what kind of cock he had. One day, he went into one of the booths that had a glory hole, so I went in next to him. He dropped a bunch of quarters and pulled out a very nice thick 8" dick. That's the great part of the glory hole, you can see the beautiful dick but you cannot see their face. I sucked his dick every chance I got because it was beautiful. I even got to the point that I would go into one of the private booths with him because I found out he was a really nice guy and beautiful on the inside. We played together for about 3 years before I got a new job and couldn't go to the bookstore during the afternoons. I miss him, he was such a nice guy.
 

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Various times in my life - I have given over to needed dick/sex more than I care about what the person looks like. I met this one guy on a parking look out one night. We ended up having a good time and we saw each other a number of times after that - and then one night he was lying on the floor and I looked at him and was like - what am I doing? Since that time I do try to be more careful. We did not live near each other and my job in the area was coming to an end so not seeing him anymore would have probably happened anyway as he was like 3-4 hours away.
 

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There's this guy who goes to my gym who is older, overweight, and not attractive at all. But he is a nice guy, and I've jerked him off many times, for which he is extremely grateful. I just like the feeling of knowing he was able to get off, even if he doesn't turn me on at all.
 

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yes i got catfished lol on grindr. Guy walked into my hotel room and the pic was about 15 years old. He was in good shape, but OLD... I was about to say sorry but you need to go, but he pulled out a massive cock and i was bent over waiting
 
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Yes, when younger, usually because they were likeable, intelligent, interesting or showed me attention. But without physical desire it's hard to sustain.
 

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Yes. Was also at adult bookstore and went to back of store to the booth area. Was looking at movie selections they had in a booth and had my shorts pulled down to my knees. Was horny and just wanted to quickly get myself off and leave. Maybe 10min later could see a guy watching me from other side of door. The lighting was deliberately poor but he stepped in and I was very hard by that time. Honestly couldn't say, remember what he looked like but instinctively knew I wasn't attracted to him from what little I could see. But he definitely knew what he wanted and was doing. He pulled my shorts completely off and played with my cock. Was leaking a lot of pre cum when he turned me around and started playing with my ass slapping it and squeezing it. He lubed his finger and slid it inside me. That felt really good but after couple minutes he was deep enough to rub my prostate. That was fucking amazing. My cock felt like it was going to literally explode at that moment. Couple minutes later he fucked me and walked out. Was easily one of the strongest, best orgasms I've ever had in my life. Fun memories.
 

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Naw. Too many guys to choose from to waste time on somebody I'm not attracted to. And even during three (or more) ways, I guess I'm not charitable enough to have sex with somebody I found unattractive. Maybe I've just been lucky, as it hasn't come up. I tend to vet groups before I show up.
 

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Not sure if this is relevant to the topic, but I’ve jerked off in front of guys at a spa/sauna that I didn’t find attractive but I found myself to be so turned on that they were turned on. And that got me goin
Fuck! I wish I could have seen that too!
 

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So, as the title suggests, have you had sex with someone you weren't attracted to physically, but whom had something about them that intrigued you, that you felt compelled to have sex? For example, someone who you don't normally find attractive physically, but after talking to them, you had sex? IF so, why? what caused you to want to have sex? What kind of sex was it? How, in the end, did this encounter(s) end? Would you recommend it? Also, it's open for discussion, and feel free to say anything you want.
I had sex with a man once just because of the suit watch and shoes he was wearing everything genuine designer gear he exuded power and wealth he was small fat and bald and his breath stank still I was like putty in his hands and he know it I couldn’t resist him anything he wanted to do i complied meekly it was weird he was so confident and arrogant I couldn’t believe the power he had over me and physically he was really ugly strange isn’t it still not sure what happened the next morning in his hotel room he wanted a blowjob I agreed when finished he told me to get dressed and fuck of which I did without question x
 

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In college (junior I think?) I had the hots for a guy and we had slept together before and we were going to meet up at the gay bar. I got there early and had a few gins and tonics and I waited and he never showed up. I stayed and proceeded to get drunk and ended up going home with one of bartenders. It was awful. I don't remember getting to his apartment but I do remember constantly falling out of his bed as he was trying to fuck me. I was do drunk and the room was spinning that I thought I was spinning with it. Disastrous. He kept reaching down to pull me back up. I think finally I passed out and he just fucked me that way, horrible night
 

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In college (junior I think?) I had the hots for a guy and we had slept together before and we were going to meet up at the gay bar. I got there early and had a few gins and tonics and I waited and he never showed up. I stayed and proceeded to get drunk and ended up going home with one of bartenders. It was awful. I don't remember getting to his apartment but I do remember constantly falling out of his bed as he was trying to fuck me. I was do drunk and the room was spinning that I thought I was spinning with it. Disastrous. He kept reaching down to pull me back up. I think finally I passed out and he just fucked me that way, horrible night

WOW! Your post just made me remember the drunk night I went home with some random guy from the bar. A typical night was my friends and I going to the bar until it closed and then going to Perkins for a late dinner/early breakfast. One night I got pretty drunk and was messing around with a guy at the bar. He was drunk too. I have no idea what he looked like. I have no idea who he was. I hadn't seen him before. And I don't think I have seen him since, but like I said, I don't remember what he looked like. We went back to his place (which I do remember where that was located) and I was looking at his CD music collection. I saw he had the new CD of somebody I liked. He played the CD for me and we made out in the living room. I kinda remember us moving to his bedroom, next thing I remember was he had passed out and was dead asleep still fully dressed. I tried to wake him up, but he was OUT! I didn't have a car and my ride was at Perkins (this was long before cell phones). So I decided I could walk there (through the bad neighborhood). I took a quick piss in the bathroom and suddenly heard the CD was still playing. I wanted to hear more of it, so I took the CD. I walked to Perkins, found my friends still waiting on their food, so I ordered my breakfast. We listened to the CD on the way home. I woke up the next morning and thought what a horrible night I had, then I saw the CD and remembered how bad it had been. YIKES!
 

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WOW! Your post just made me remember the drunk night I went home with some random guy from the bar. A typical night was my friends and I going to the bar until it closed and then going to Perkins for a late dinner/early breakfast. One night I got pretty drunk and was messing around with a guy at the bar. He was drunk too. I have no idea what he looked like. I have no idea who he was. I hadn't seen him before. And I don't think I have seen him since, but like I said, I don't remember what he looked like. We went back to his place (which I do remember where that was located) and I was looking at his CD music collection. I saw he had the new CD of somebody I liked. He played the CD for me and we made out in the living room. I kinda remember us moving to his bedroom, next thing I remember was he had passed out and was dead asleep still fully dressed. I tried to wake him up, but he was OUT! I didn't have a car and my ride was at Perkins (this was long before cell phones). So I decided I could walk there (through the bad neighborhood). I took a quick piss in the bathroom and suddenly heard the CD was still playing. I wanted to hear more of it, so I took the CD. I walked to Perkins, found my friends still waiting on their food, so I ordered my breakfast. We listened to the CD on the way home. I woke up the next morning and thought what a horrible night I had, then I saw the CD and remembered how bad it had been.
 

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WOW! Your post just made me remember the drunk night I went home with some random guy from the bar. A typical night was my friends and I going to the bar until it closed and then going to Perkins for a late dinner/early breakfast. One night I got pretty drunk and was messing around with a guy at the bar. He was drunk too. I have no idea what he looked like. I have no idea who he was. I hadn't seen him before. And I don't think I have seen him since, but like I said, I don't remember what he looked like. We went back to his place (which I do remember where that was located) and I was looking at his CD music collection. I saw he had the new CD of somebody I liked. He played the CD for me and we made out in the living room. I kinda remember us moving to his bedroom, next thing I remember was he had passed out and was dead asleep still fully dressed. I tried to wake him up, but he was OUT! I didn't have a car and my ride was at Perkins (this was long before cell phones). So I decided I could walk there (through the bad neighborhood). I took a quick piss in the bathroom and suddenly heard the CD was still playing. I wanted to hear more of it, so I took the CD. I walked to Perkins, found my friends still waiting on their food, so I ordered my breakfast. We listened to the CD on the way home. I woke up the next morning and thought what a horrible night I had, then I saw the CD and remembered how bad it had been. YIKES!
Well it sounds like it wasn't a total loss, you got a nice CD out of it. the fun days of college when we were younger. I'm glad that type of life is behind me. Have a good one
 
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