I'd like to share my experience with "ruining" a woman. When I was in my mid 20's I started dating a BBW in her early 40's and she just went crazy over the size of my cock. Anyways she comes over one day to tell me she had cheated on me and at first I was angry, but she felt the need to explain so I let her continue. She said she wasn't feeling that confident about our relationship, given the age difference, so when her ex gave her a booty call, she decided to let him in. Anyways she says she asked him if he was in... at that point I just couldn't be mad at her anymore, I wish I could have seen the look on his face when she said that, that's got to be the most emasculating thing you can say during sex. Anyways, she sure made me feel special, knowing she couldn't even feel her ex because of me.