emilywee: I was wondering if any other women had sexual tension with male friends who are gay? I have one really good friend, who is really hot but not interested in the least in me in that way. I guess I'm not emotionally interested either, but there have been several times now when we're both talking about sex or men, we get pretty horny. We've done some things in front of each other but are not interested in direct physical contact. Has anyone else had this experience?