Over Thanksgiving it was announced that one of my cousins got a girl pregnant who will be delivering in a few weeks. He is a rather immature 24 year old guy who doesn't quite have his life together. She is a bit older and has a good job as a nurse so I think they can support the child financially. They are not married and it was mentioned more than once that the pregnancy was not planned. He is being rather sheepish about it all and avoiding most relatives but everyone in the family seems OK with it. I don't know if they are planning on marrying but it seems like he is going to stick around. I am wondering if it still is a stigma these days to have a kid out of wedlock. I'm OK with it and have congratulated him but there is a considerable uneasyness on his part that makes any normalcy and celebration difficult. He hasn't even introduced the mother to us yet and she is having his baby in a few weeks! I have a sneaking suspicion that he is not in love with her. Has anybody been in this situation before? What is the etiquette for this? How do you make a difficult situation less weird?