What is this obsession with having a large penis or wanting one? Why is it that most males feel that having a large penis makes you more of a man or more confident? With that said ... why does size matter? Why is it ingrained that bigger is better? On porn sites in particular I have always found it interesting why they embellish the actor's size......unless otherwise his dick is probably already big enough ... why not just let on the true size of his member? I feel that alone would instill confidence in the viewers mind if he sees the true size of the performer he is watching with a beautiful woman.