Having an affair

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Not_Punny, Feb 16, 2011.

  1. Not_Punny

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    Can you have an affair (for emotional needs) if your guy relishes the idea of you fucking other men?
     
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    okay, that was a bit unclear. I am surrounded by guys who would fuck me and a few who do fuck me, but how can one have an EMOTIONAL affair?

    How do you find that emotional bond?

    Or is it really just the sex?
     
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    It's quite easy to have sex without love right?

    Well an emotional affair is essentially having the love without the sex. And not in a friendship way.

    Even if your partner is happy for you to have sex with others, I suspect he would be rather more reluctant to share your (romantic) love with others.
     
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    You know it is emotional when you feel like you need them around you. You never feel like you need them with you for sex, that is more of a cheap thrill, it turns to love when that cheap thrill feels like something more. Something you otherwise thought you could only ever share with one other.
     
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