I'm not really worried about when or if I have children of my own. I will be 26 a little later this year and I'm totally unconcerned. There are so many other things I want to do with my life. Also after having worked in a group home and with foreign orphanages I am more determined than most people to make sure that I can give my children everything they need and more. I'm not so worried about marriage or having a husband as I'm pretty sure hell would have to freeze over before I got married. However, knowing all of this I have a friend who criticizes me because I don't have an marriage prospects or children yet. She does all of this while being unmarried, she and her boyfriend still live with her parents and their newborn in her childhood bedroom. Somehow she thinks that is better than the life I have chosen for myself. I say to each his own...which is why when I'm ready to help mold and enhance the life of a child(ren) I will become a foster parent, adopt, or even pursue having children of my own. I estimate I will be in my 30s.