ScorpioSlut - I would never call you a slut and I think I can understand your position but I also think you lack some sensitivity to this subject for those who are cheated on. I don't know if Stephenmass was cheated on and thats why he reacted the way he did but to be honest, it sucks. I was cheated on by my g/f who I was living with and I will never be the same person again. Although I love her, I lost a part of myself that I will never get back. That pain, the lack of security, the lack of respect, and I could go on, will never be the same for me no matter who I am with.