I have been with my girlfriend for over a year now and I have a facination about big dick and when were having sex I feel like im not pleasuring her, she says I have a great cock but when im fucking her I wish I had a bigger one. She says that size doesnt matter and that she has only slept with 2 people bigger than me, she also said that they hurt her. I feel like if I had a bigger cock I could satisfy her more.
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OK, I need some clairification. She says you have an amazing dick. You think it should be bigger because she has had 2 guys with bigger dicks (who hurt her).
Dude, grow up. She loves your cock. Unless she has told you, "Baby, I wish you had a bigger cock" I wouldn't worry about it. You are doing your job, she loves it. Stop ruining a good thing.
Don't mess with a good thing. If she says it's okay and both of you are having fun and enjoying sex why worry? Don't complicate things more that is necessary. Bigger might not be better for her. You have nothing to worry about.
I wish I had a girlfriend that would tell me I am plenty big!
...seems like U are a bit obsessed with the whole big-dick thing...relax.
Dont U believe her when she says that U are amazing?
Stop worrying...size isnt all when it comes to great sex. U have to learn that...otherwise ur issues really gonna be a problem for both of U. So STOP WORRYING...
i wouldn't trip. I think a lot of it has to do with the "looking in the mirror" effect. It makes it look smaller. In my case..I wish I were bigger as well but I haven't been able to get it all the way in my girlfriend once...I'm only 7 inches and maybe 5 around at max. I don't think girls are as obsessed as some of us think.
if you have a choice between 1 inch bigger and worse sex or current size and great sex which would you choose?
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Yeah guy... Get over the big cock thing..." My hubby thought he was not big enough for me when we first started dating. I had a few big guys myself and look who I feel in love with and want to sleep with..my hubby.." He is a ave sized guy, but, he gets my body happy!! So, PLEASE stop this madness about having a BIGGER DICK..." You are going to LOSE the great chick that you have if she feel that you are SO INSECURE..." Sorry if I did not spell something right..." But, really, everyone is telling you RIGHT.." Stop the madness!!!
One of the guys that had a huge cock SUCKED IN THE BED ROOM..." That is my story.." But, yet my hubby is not hung like a damn horse and he is GREAT!!!!!!!!:redface:
One of the guys that had a huge cock SUCKED IN THE BED ROOM..." That is my story.." But, yet my hubby is not hung like a damn horse and he is GREAT!!!!!!!!:redface:
Thanks you guys(ang girls).
I guess it only matter if you only make it a matter. I still have a thing for big guys and a bit jealous. She says im the best she as ever had and that I pleasure more than enough, I guess I just believe the old cliche that BIGGER IS BETTER..... I feel so much better now. Once again thanks.
I would choose to have great sex rather than have an extra inch I suppose.
I guess it only matter if you only make it a matter. I still have a thing for big guys and a bit jealous. She says im the best she as ever had and that I pleasure more than enough, I guess I just believe the old cliche that BIGGER IS BETTER..... I feel so much better now. Once again thanks.
I would choose to have great sex rather than have an extra inch I suppose.
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I wish I had a magic answer for you. It looks like this is more of a self-esteem issue than anything else. If you doubt her when she says that loves your cock, then you may have some trust issues in there too, but since you seemed to doubt yourself more than her that may not be so much of an issue, which is good. Building a little self-esteem is much easier than building trust.
There are many ways to try and boost yourself a little. First, looking good is a nice first step. I have no idea what body type you have, but a simple way to boost your self image is to hit the gym a little more often. You will feel better and stronger and I have found that can lead to greater sexual confidence.
Second, don't let sex revolve around just your cock. Granted, it is an integral part of sex, but still just one part. Obviously oral sex comes to mind, but let me give you a personal example. Every week my wife and I shower together. I caress, kiss, and lick EVERY inch of her body, and I do it slowly, while spending remarkably little time with her pussy. I take that as a time to make sure that she knows that I desire every inch of her, not just her sexual organs and tits. While doing so, I make sure I make sure I rub my erection against her thighs a bit to let her know how much I desire her. In doing this, I can usually, though not always, bring her to an orgasm, every once in a while, even two, with very little, if any, attention to her clit. I get off on it almost as much as she does. It gives me greater sexual self confidence than actual intercourse and it has nothing to do with my cock, let alone the size of it.
Lastly, I don't think there is really anything wrong in occasionally desiring a bigger cock. We all have our self-doubts of one kind or another. Just don't let it negatively impact your life, especially when your girlfriend seems to prize it as much as she does.
There are many ways to try and boost yourself a little. First, looking good is a nice first step. I have no idea what body type you have, but a simple way to boost your self image is to hit the gym a little more often. You will feel better and stronger and I have found that can lead to greater sexual confidence.
Second, don't let sex revolve around just your cock. Granted, it is an integral part of sex, but still just one part. Obviously oral sex comes to mind, but let me give you a personal example. Every week my wife and I shower together. I caress, kiss, and lick EVERY inch of her body, and I do it slowly, while spending remarkably little time with her pussy. I take that as a time to make sure that she knows that I desire every inch of her, not just her sexual organs and tits. While doing so, I make sure I make sure I rub my erection against her thighs a bit to let her know how much I desire her. In doing this, I can usually, though not always, bring her to an orgasm, every once in a while, even two, with very little, if any, attention to her clit. I get off on it almost as much as she does. It gives me greater sexual self confidence than actual intercourse and it has nothing to do with my cock, let alone the size of it.
Lastly, I don't think there is really anything wrong in occasionally desiring a bigger cock. We all have our self-doubts of one kind or another. Just don't let it negatively impact your life, especially when your girlfriend seems to prize it as much as she does.
My girlfreind made a comment about my penis today(not a good one either), we got on the conversation about her lips and I was commenting on her lips saying there blowjob lips. I have never had a blowjob from my current girlfriend and we have been together for a year and a half.
Anyway the conversation got on to how small her mouth was and then she said "its ok you've only got a small willy". It kinda of knocked me back, I am more self concious about my cock more than ever now. By now your probably reading this thinking "how big or small is he". My girlfriend measured me last year, thats right she actually got a tape measure out and measured it. Anyway the results came back and I am currently 7" long(we did not measure the girth). Thats not an extra 1" a lot of people put on when measuring there cock properly.
I have been watching a lot of pornos lately, have been a big fan of them for some time now(many years) and I really enjoy watching girls get fucked by big cocks, black guys mainly and frankly I a lot of women like BIG DICKS. I think this has somehow affected my view on the whole never ending subject of "DOES SIZE MATTER"?
All im saying is and im sure 98% of males would agree with me that they would love to have a bigger penis.
Thats all for now.
Anyway the conversation got on to how small her mouth was and then she said "its ok you've only got a small willy". It kinda of knocked me back, I am more self concious about my cock more than ever now. By now your probably reading this thinking "how big or small is he". My girlfriend measured me last year, thats right she actually got a tape measure out and measured it. Anyway the results came back and I am currently 7" long(we did not measure the girth). Thats not an extra 1" a lot of people put on when measuring there cock properly.
I have been watching a lot of pornos lately, have been a big fan of them for some time now(many years) and I really enjoy watching girls get fucked by big cocks, black guys mainly and frankly I a lot of women like BIG DICKS. I think this has somehow affected my view on the whole never ending subject of "DOES SIZE MATTER"?
All im saying is and im sure 98% of males would agree with me that they would love to have a bigger penis.
Thats all for now.
There is nothing small about 7". According to most studies the majority of men are equal to or less than 6". Yes, most of us would like a bigger one unless we are already 10+ inches. I have even head guys who were 8" or
even 9" say they would like more. I would like a bigger one and at 6"x5" I would trade for your 7" too. I do think size does matter...it matters to me
and to most other men more than it does to women. I does matter a lot to
some women though. Everybody is different. Most women who really care about their man and not just a one night stand type thing do not care much at all about size.
If your woman is satisfied with what you have why worry? I mean if you have sex that is pleasurable and satisfying for both of you and you care about each other what more could you want? I will gladly trade you for that sitiuation. I have nobody to care about right now. What I am saying is if everything else is okay do not screw up a good thing. Worrying and losing your confidence will ruin your relationship and you do not want that.
If she really can't accept you as you are (and I seriously doubt that she feels she can't) then find someone who can. It won't be that hard. There is nothing wrong with you at all as far as size is concerned.
even 9" say they would like more. I would like a bigger one and at 6"x5" I would trade for your 7" too. I do think size does matter...it matters to me
and to most other men more than it does to women. I does matter a lot to
some women though. Everybody is different. Most women who really care about their man and not just a one night stand type thing do not care much at all about size.
If your woman is satisfied with what you have why worry? I mean if you have sex that is pleasurable and satisfying for both of you and you care about each other what more could you want? I will gladly trade you for that sitiuation. I have nobody to care about right now. What I am saying is if everything else is okay do not screw up a good thing. Worrying and losing your confidence will ruin your relationship and you do not want that.
If she really can't accept you as you are (and I seriously doubt that she feels she can't) then find someone who can. It won't be that hard. There is nothing wrong with you at all as far as size is concerned.
Hmm i don't quite get your girlfriend. Your earlier post stated that she's contented with your penis and then later on she said you got a small one ? I can understand your feeling since not even a subtle comment if it's a word by word of hers. She could be saying it in a joking manner since you said she got a small mouth ? Maybe you can talk it over with her if you really want to.
If you are leaving her exhausted from pleasure and satisfying yourself why are you fucking with your head? Pump her with a big dildo if you need to satisfy the I wish I had a bigger cock syndrome.
I don't know about you but I have no interest in another inch that doesn't fit into a girls pussy as I like to bang it to the bone.
I don't know about you but I have no interest in another inch that doesn't fit into a girls pussy as I like to bang it to the bone.
If you have an Audi, some guy drives a Porsche. If you earn a four hundred grand a year, someone earns a million. If you're goodlooking, someone else is an underwear model. If you are an 9", some other guy is 13".
7" isn't small by any means, unless you're pencil thin. I'll let you in on a little secret... she's probably testing you to see if you're insecure. Not every woman does this, but some do. If she tells you that you've got an amazing cock and then she calls you small, she's testing to see what you're reaction will be.
Hell, the two "huge" guys may be a test. The average girl hasn't slept with a 10, 9 or even 8 incher... let alone two. Here's an interesting lifestyle condom's graph Image
enis frequency.jpg - Wikipedia, the free encyclopediahttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Penis_frequency.jpg). Although some guys here have made it a quest to make sure that every girl gets to experience a big one.
Or you may be a shill selling penis pills - making this into an issue is a great way to shift product - if you put a number like 7" (above the average of every known survey) and suggest that it won't satisfy a woman, what's someone who's 6 inches going to think? What are they going to think knowing their girl might've been with two guys who were huge? "I better buy me some penis pills or I'm a failure of a man".
7" isn't small by any means, unless you're pencil thin. I'll let you in on a little secret... she's probably testing you to see if you're insecure. Not every woman does this, but some do. If she tells you that you've got an amazing cock and then she calls you small, she's testing to see what you're reaction will be.
Hell, the two "huge" guys may be a test. The average girl hasn't slept with a 10, 9 or even 8 incher... let alone two. Here's an interesting lifestyle condom's graph Image
enis frequency.jpg - Wikipedia, the free encyclopediahttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Penis_frequency.jpg). Although some guys here have made it a quest to make sure that every girl gets to experience a big one. Or you may be a shill selling penis pills - making this into an issue is a great way to shift product
- if you put a number like 7" (above the average of every known survey) and suggest that it won't satisfy a woman, what's someone who's 6 inches going to think? What are they going to think knowing their girl might've been with two guys who were huge? "I better buy me some penis pills or I'm a failure of a man".The only way to satisfy her is being really caring, loving and self-conscious is the same time: I am big but sometimes I hurt her, instead of pleasing her, and all because I lose my mind and start going to wild.
I wish my penis was thicker, regardless of if im the biggest she ever had or what. Kinda like a woman who gets breast implants for her own reasons, if my penis was just a little thicker, i would be perfectly happy no matter how big of guys my woman had been with. just 1/4 thicker cmon!! groww u bastard!! lolz
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