Having trouble with cumming too soon. HELP!

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  1. SR_Festus Salmonodor

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    Hey whats up.
    So over the last few months me and my girl friend havent had much time for sex. Just real busy with work and tired all the time. Now that things are slowing down with work and we arent so tired, the sex life is picking back up again. Problem is, as soon as i get my cock inside her, I'm on the brink of of orgasm! It so bad that if she moves even a little bit i start to cum. I havent had this problem since i was a teenager. Before our "dry spell" we had a very active sex life. Never once did I have a problem of premature ejaculation. I can tell it bothers her and it is def getting to me. Any suggestion on how i can get back into shape and control my sensitivity?
    Thanks!:Eyecrazy:
     
  2. Rikter8

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    So, cum and keep going. Nothing wrong with a little natural lube.
    Oh..and post a pic of your cock :) Need to see what we're workin with :)
     
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    onanedger New Member

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    Try the edging techniques. That helped me a lot.
     
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    go for more than once.
     
  5. sexplease

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    prime the plumbing. bang out a quick jerk off or have her do it to you. wait a few minutes to rebound, then go for more duration.
    wait an hour and repeat for a third.
     
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    You people a crazy............If you are over 25, take a Viagra and fuck her all night w/o cumming until you really want to. A friend of mine pops a V and then waits and takes a hit of pot and OMG fucks forever with a big explosion
     
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    I'll go on a different tack, since I hardly ever see this solution brought up on this topic.

    The question I have: do you suffer, even a little, from depression? I used to have pretty bad depression. Over the course of several years, my depression (and the underlying psychological issues) manifested themselves as a pretty bad premature ejaculation problem.

    About six months ago I finally started taking anti-depressants (Escitalopram). My doctor warned me that a potential side-effect would be decreased sex drive. I can't say I've noticed any change in that area, but within a few weeks of being on the drug, my premature ejaculation problem simply disappeared. In fact, now in my mid-30s I probably have more stamina than I've ever had in my life. In fact, just last month my wife and I had a session where she eventually had to beg me to stop: just too much dick for too long (something that hadn't happened since the first couple months of our relationship, seven years ago).

    I know it's cliché, but the biggest erogenous zone IS the brain, in more ways than one. If the brain isn't right, it's tough for anything else to be.

    I don't know if this will help/apply to you or not. But hopefully it will help someone along the way.
     
  8. D_Bodacious Appetite

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    Another thing is don't start out pumping like a wildman. Start off slow and just get a feel for it before you start ramming
     
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    I do agree with VMAN, anti-depressant will numb the insensitivity of your penis.
    Ask your doctor for a free low dose of zoloft and see if this helps. That was one of the very minor side effect beside feeling very calm/floating......
     
  10. SR_Festus Salmonodor

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    I'll be staying away from the meds but thanks for all the advice. I posted a couple pics in the gallery for those of you interested.
     
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    Zoloft is the best drug ever for this problem. Like the energizer bunny, you can keep going and going and going. Don't knock it till you have tried it.
     
  12. SR_Festus Salmonodor

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    I dont doubt that it would help. I've learned from past experience though that my body does not react well to those kinds of pills.
     
  13. SR_Festus Salmonodor

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    FYI: In case anyone is interested it looks like we are back on track. Last few sessions were nice and long. Was able to make her cum and put a smile on her face!
     
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    Try Kegels. It is said to work really well.
     
  15. D_Bodacious Appetite

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    *Applause*
     
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    Someone above said that because of taking antidepressants the premature ejaculation problem disappeared. My ex b/f was on antidepressants and lost his sensitivity so much from the antidepressants that he would get frustrated because it would either take forever to cum or he wouldn't cum at all. I wouldn't try the antidepressant route either my friend. It could have the opposite effect.
     
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