I found this man's profile in a bodybuilding site. We both lived in the same country, but in different cities. I wrote up to him asking for some advice on supplements, etc. He sounded like a "normal" guy and was very friendly in his response, even if I was a complete stranger. One word leads to another, and I told him that I didn't want to become too big (maybe I can't anyway, due to my age), because I don't want to attract looks on to my body. Then he said that it felt marvellous to be checked wherever he went. I told him I had a jealous wife, and he answered that maybe my wife might as well start improving her own body (well, actually she doesn't need to...). Then I told him in a jokling way: "I don't know if you are married or have a gf, but you must know that women, when they are not jealous, are controlling, LOL". He didn't reply for a long time. I thought he would never write again, but this morning as I opened my inbox, there was a very short message from him that caused me to drop my teeth. I had not directly asked him anything and I was not suspecting anything, either. His message read: <<Actually I have a husband, and I love him very much.>> I couldn't refrain myself from writing back: << If you want to, we can talk freely about that.>> How would you have reacted?