He had a big ass dick for nothing!

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He couldn't get hard for like 20 minutes.
Could have been he was nervous. But, as a woman engaging in partnered, much less NSA, sex, you should know several different sure-fire ways to get a man hard (and relaxed) in this kind of situation. Basics - touch him, suck it, tease (bend over in front of him and tell him he can have only one lick of your pussy. Pull away, still bent over and ask if he wants another taste...), say something sexy, etc.

I think you should step away from the dick until you know what you're doing.

Well shit I'm one. Me bein nice is why some girls think I got a small dick before we even do anything. Some kinda stereotype I guess lol
They're obviously so very wrong! You have the kind of stuff that would make me wanna scream "I love daddy dick!" :biggrin1: +points if you know what I'm referencing.
 

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i've always been baffled by this...girls i've been with are surprised to take my pants off and find that i'm already hard. i wasn't aware for a long time that this was even a problem. just assumed everyone was good to go after a few minutes of making out, and certainly by the time clothes were removed. lol. but yeah, maybe next time get a little more foreplay in before (and even after) the zipper comes down. ;)
 

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A few things: First, some women prefer a certain type of men because of previous experience. I had a black girlfriend who swore off black men because every one them treated her wrong/bad. Its bad that a few dozen guys of a certain ethnicity can leave a bad taste in a girl's mouth, it just happens. I know of women who were totally into black men because of the way they were treated. Maybe she just picked the wrong ones. Of course, when a women chose 20 to 30 black guys and they were all the wrong ones, maybe it was her.
Second, maybe the guy was on drugs and that is why he couldn't get hard. I know that some guys take drugs to "relax" and they take too much and preform horribly. I know that when I have sex, I like to do it totally straight without any drugs in my system because I want to feel everything.
Don't let one guy turn you off to other guys whom you might pick up on the Internet. I've used the Internet to pick up dozens of girl, guys and couples and had some good and bad experiences.
 

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Could have been he was nervous. But, as a woman engaging in partnered, much less NSA, sex, you should know several different sure-fire ways to get a man hard (and relaxed) in this kind of situation. Basics - touch him, suck it, tease (bend over in front of him and tell him he can have only one lick of your pussy. Pull away, still bent over and ask if he wants another taste...), say something sexy, etc.

I think you should step away from the dick until you know what you're doing.


They're obviously so very wrong! You have the kind of stuff that would make me wanna scream "I love daddy dick!" :biggrin1: +points if you know what I'm referencing.

baby boy!!!!! that scene/movie made me fall in love wit' taraji p. henson!!!
 

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Damn black dudes gettin bashed pretty hard here lol. I admit Rom alot of brothers on here are arrogant fucks but not all of us. But Wow someone not gettin hard for you should be a crime.
true dude,but sadly the stereotype outlives the normal guys

we've got em here too in europe
morrocans,most of them are near-retards but the guys who are educated are nice to talk to and are not as high strung as their inbred cousins(no....realy,they marry their cousins)
 

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Damn black dudes gettin bashed pretty hard here lol. I admit Rom alot of brothers on here are arrogant fucks but not all of us. But Wow someone not gettin hard for you should be a crime.

...but it is refreshing to see some reverse discrimination instead of the same old tired idolization of black me shoved down our throats by all the powers that be.
 

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Well shit I'm one. Me bein nice is why some girls think I got a small dick before we even do anything. Some kinda stereotype I guess lol

lol....I wouldn't say that. Alot of girls do think nice guys are nice because they can't get laid. I don't feel that way but just saying.

Yeah man but you can't blame here cuz a lot of her fucks can't keep it up
Well, I didn't want any surprises in what I was asking for. Thats why I was VERY explicit so I wouldn't have to screen so much. He did have a big dick though.
You haven't fucked enough white guys yet. :no: Trust me, douchebags, disrespectful, cheaters, etc. they come in all shapes sizes and colors. :yup:


I usually prefer white men as well; but not because I think all black men are dogs. :no: I've had some black men treat me like a goddess.

Well, true....all white men aren't the same but I have a higher percentage rate of picking nice white guys than black guys. Don't get me wrong...i've only had sex with three white men but I do have white male friends and they're much nicer to me. There was snow in MD a little over a week ago and I hadn't move my car. Yesterday after me and the guy fucked he gave me the key and told me I could stay the night. So, he dropped me back off at my dorm and I went to get my car to drive back. I was stuck like shirt. There was a big ass hump of snow behind my car from wherethe plow truck came and pushed the snow to the side. I worked on getting my car out for about 40 minutes. Balck guy after black guy walked without saying a word and then 4 white guys coming from the dining hall came over and simply said "get back in your car and we'll help". I got back in my car and they told me to floor it. I did and they saw where the problem was. They gave me some more directions and I tried a few more times when it still wasn't working one of the other white guys offered to go and get a bucket of hot water to help. Eventually they decided I should floor it while they pushed my car over the hump and it worked. They were so nice. There was another time I was at school and had a flat tire and had to go somewhere important and two white guys came over and offered to put my donut on. Black men on campus are horrible. My black male friends talk to me as if "i'm on of the guys". They fart in front of me and do other gross things while if one of my white friends acidentally burps after drinking soda they say "my bad" or "excuse me". Thats why when black men at my school firt I look the other way. Of course he's gonna be nice when he wants a piece of ass but then he's gonna go back to his homies and next time he sees me he's gonna tell them "yo I fucked that bitch" and they will reply "no way."
And oh, when the hell did you change your name? I was like "that writing style looks familiar"
giiiiiiiiiiiiiirl, i am so sorry you had to go through that!

did you two at least try foreplay so he could get hard? order some porn from the hotel? use a sex toy?

tell us what happened!
he didn't wanna order any porn. he pay 100 bucks for the room. We tried foreplay. I asked him was there something I could do and he said no.

A few things: First, some women prefer a certain type of men because of previous experience. I had a black girlfriend who swore off black men because every one them treated her wrong/bad. Its bad that a few dozen guys of a certain ethnicity can leave a bad taste in a girl's mouth, it just happens. I know of women who were totally into black men because of the way they were treated. Maybe she just picked the wrong ones. Of course, when a women chose 20 to 30 black guys and they were all the wrong ones, maybe it was her.
Second, maybe the guy was on drugs and that is why he couldn't get hard. I know that some guys take drugs to "relax" and they take too much and preform horribly. I know that when I have sex, I like to do it totally straight without any drugs in my system because I want to feel everything.
Don't let one guy turn you off to other guys whom you might pick up on the Internet. I've used the Internet to pick up dozens of girl, guys and couples and had some good and bad experiences.
very true....but I don't wanna fuck half the male population to then come to an conclusion. I'll stick to what i've decided.
 
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Where do you live? lol I know if you were down south plenty of black dudes woulda cut an arm off to help you with your car and such. IDK romm sounds like its more just where you live the black dudes are crazy because that would NEVER happen down here. I've seen the same amount of dudes black, spanish, and white all fight over the chance to help a female. And if you tell me you live in the south then I'd have to say I don't believe that. And its not usually race based it's just the area. Take it from me I've lived in a lot of places, both in Europe and in the US.

P.S. on the first response. Me being nice has never kept me from gettin sum lol trust me on that. It's just a bigger surprise for them that I'm nice and got what I got
 

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i know the feeling rommette. i met this guy at the adult bookstore when i was buying a dildo. he told me i wouldn't need the dildo, he had what i needed. i went to the car with him and sucked his dick. it was magnificent, long, extremely thick, tasted wonderful... i sucked his dick twice that night and he started coming to my house almost daily so that i could suck him off, usually outside where neighbors could see. when i decided to let him fuck me, i was so looking forward to riding his big thick cock and drenching it in my cum. we tried on two separate occasions and he couldn't stay hard to fuck me. talk about disappointment. that was the end of that. now if i could just find another guy with a huge dick who would give it to me daily.....

i live in memphis, tn, by the way
 

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First off: If a girl decides she prefers white men over darker guys it just as much as a prejuce as it is if she preffered taller men over shorter ones. Personal preference can't be argued. Sorry, boys.

I also think it might be a tad bit harsh the way some are reacting.. it's not like they were dating, but they just made the decission to have no-strings-atached-sex. No more, no less. He couldn't deliver, I can understand the frustration there.
 

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That sucks, he was probabaly way too nervous. If you think way too much about something its way too hard to keep it up. Did you use condoms? Thats prolly another reason it went down with all his nerves.
 

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Wow... i'm gonna go with the few on here that he was nervous, but i would think that eventually the nerves would go away and he'd start filling you up nicely. It's unfortunate that you had this bad experience. Take the good with the bad.

As far as you just preferring white men, i'd say that's totally up to you. You're the one fucking them, right? I will say that jerk-ass men come in all shades of ethnicity. I'm sure you will run into white men who are as big of assholes as the black men that you speak of.

Either way keep your head up and keep looking... although rare at time, that big and "hard" cock is out there.
 

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Where do you live? lol I know if you were down south plenty of black dudes woulda cut an arm off to help you with your car and such. IDK romm sounds like its more just where you live the black dudes are crazy because that would NEVER happen down here. I've seen the same amount of dudes black, spanish, and white all fight over the chance to help a female. And if you tell me you live in the south then I'd have to say I don't believe that. And its not usually race based it's just the area. Take it from me I've lived in a lot of places, both in Europe and in the US.
I live.....in MD (As Pitbull stated...lol). The white guys up here are nice

i know the feeling rommette. i met this guy at the adult bookstore when i was buying a dildo. he told me i wouldn't need the dildo, he had what i needed. i went to the car with him and sucked his dick. it was magnificent, long, extremely thick, tasted wonderful... i sucked his dick twice that night and he started coming to my house almost daily so that i could suck him off, usually outside where neighbors could see. when i decided to let him fuck me, i was so looking forward to riding his big thick cock and drenching it in my cum. we tried on two separate occasions and he couldn't stay hard to fuck me. talk about disappointment. that was the end of that. now if i could just find another guy with a huge dick who would give it to me daily.....

i live in memphis, tn, by the way
exactly....i was hyped up like shit for nothing

....maybe Maryland? :wink:

I might have to take you up on that offer...lol
 

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... Me bein nice is why some girls think I got a small dick before we even do anything. Some kinda stereotype I guess lol

Lol, I've gotten the same thing before. One girl actually said, "Yeah I never thought you had a big dick because you were so nice!"

I told her she had it wrong, the mean guys have the small dicks and the nice guys have the big dicks... that's why they're so mean and we're so nice! :tongue:

And Rommette sorry to hear about your bad sex troubles. Hope you find better guys in the future! :smile:
 
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