I've been dating a guy who didn't want to put out for the first few weeks. So I was patient and trying to figure out why. When a guy doesn't put out, it's normal for some to think that he's got something to be embarrassed about (i.e. a small penis) and wants his personality to shine so that his size won't matter... But the other day we were making out and things got really hot and heavy. His clothes came off and - BAM - I was presented with a 8-9" thick penis! I'm used to large penises, specifically in length. We haven't had sex yet but I'm pretty sure the next time we see each other it's going to happen. I'm so turned on by him and I lubricate well...but I have a feeling his girth will be a challenge. Anyone out there who can relate, and any tips?