he likes me?

[XSILVER]

I would just play it casual. I would be like "Hey lets go to the mall when were done here" or "Im starving, wanna go grab a bite to eat after service?". Its more of a direct approach and its not asking if he wants to go and do something but telling him what you are going to do and if he wants to join you.

 

[thefroh]

He wasnt at church again this week im kinda dissapointed

 

[Novaboy]

Too bad, do you know where he lives. Is this unusual? Does he usually attend everyweek?

 

[thefroh]

Usually he does yeah. he lives like 4 or 5 towns north of where i live. Maybe he's sick? It is flu season and i know a couple of people who got sick.

Does anyone think it's possible that he's on LPSG and knows about this thread and is trying to see what I say? or is that just stupid lol idk

 

[XSILVER]

Thats just your mind running wild. Was he at church this week?

 

[B_Hung Jon]

Call him on the phone and ask how he is. I'm sure he'd like to hear from you.

 

[buzzrider7]

Ha ha - that would be funny! (And good news since it might mean that he's well hung in addition to all the other awesome things you wrote about him). Seriously, though, your profile is completely anonymous, meaning that you could be anywhere in the world, and I'm sure that there are more than just a few horny, curious 18-year-olds rubbing legs in church all across the globe who this post could apply to. ;-) Hope he shows up next week! My advice is don't chicken out - just ask him "Hey, how 'bout hanging out sometime?" Let us know how it goes.

Usually he does yeah. he lives like 4 or 5 towns north of where i live. Maybe he's sick? It is flu season and i know a couple of people who got sick.

Does anyone think it's possible that he's on LPSG and knows about this thread and is trying to see what I say? or is that just stupid lol idk

 

[thefroh]

HE WAS THERE!!!

I took everyone's advice and I sort of played it cool(as cool as I could lol) and I asked him if he wanted to come with after church to get pizza. He said he couldn't this week because he had to get home right after church but that was completely free next week and he'd "love"D) to next week and he kind of gave me this kind of "I know what you really mean" smile.

I dont think there's any doubt about whether or not he likes me but now I have another question

What should we do after we eat? Should we go our seperate ways or should I invite him over to my house to play videogames or something? I feel so giddy that I'm going to do something with him .

 

[metastallion]

people get more frank on phone or chat than face to face talk, cal him, i he goes on talking a bit loger time than this means he do want 2 spend time with u. Come close 2 him. B his frend. Try to make him comfy wid u. Sure he wil acept he likes u. Thats the way worked 4 me.

 

[EmJay]

HE WAS THERE!!!

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Cute..I can so imagine how your heart must have skipped a beat when you saw him..:smile:

Can't wait to see how the next episode turns out..

 

[rob_]

Cute..I can so imagine how your heart must have skipped a beat when you saw him..:smile:

Can't wait to see how the next episode turns out..

Haha, I know, eh?
This is totez adorable.

 

[XSILVER]

May i suggest go out after you eat? Go and grab a coffee or go for a walk someplace. This way there is no akwardness at any time and you are out with him just enjoying one anothers company.

 

[HappyBoi]

Aw, this is so cute! ;D
I sure hope he responds to your feelings! While you're out eating pizza, try to avoid talking about the church I'd say, ask him about his interests and what he does on a daily bases, maybe try to lurk out if he enjoys movies or videogames as you said, and then invite him home to play a bit ** , or maybe go see a movie.

Good luck! ;D

 

[Fleur]

Sounds classic to me. I'd say you're reading this one correctly!

I agree, been there.

 

[SpeedoMike]

what to talk about after the small talk. best advice I received is to go with the flow... turn heart on; turn brain off.

 

[thefroh]

Perhaps if there's a god, he doesnt want me 2 see him.

He didnt come this week, likely b/c of a big snowstorm in the church's area.

 

[maxcok]

Perhaps if there's a god, he doesnt want me 2 see him.

He didnt come this week, likely b/c of a big snowstorm in the church's area.

Patience, my young friend, and try not to push or get ahead of yourself. Let it happen naturally. Good luck.

 

[canuck_pa]

Do you have his phone number? With all the snow you could call him to see if he's alright or got snowed in or something.

Best of luck.

 

[heist]

Yes. Do you have a cell phone with texting? I know I said "don't go crazy" but it's fine to call or text sometimes. Even better, if you can get him on facebook or some other social media website, then you can just chat/message easily.

The point is, you want to get to know this guy better so you don't have to be interpreting "signals" that may or may not be there (such as "oh no! why didn't he come this week? maybe the weather?" -- you can just ask instead, or if you have a dialogue going, he'll probably offer the info freely).

That said, be careful to not get too emotionally involved before there is actually something there. You seem like an innocent guy; don't let your feelings get the best of you.

 

[thefroh]

I have a cell with text but it sux b/c i dont have his number. He isnt on facebook(i've checked), and i dont know how to ask him for his number . Any suggestions? Also, I want to thank Heist for his sound advice