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I have been in 2 cuckhold situations where I was the bull. Both men loved to watch me ravish their women. It was fun and they both were a good lay. The men sat back and watched and rubbed themselves through thier shorts or towel, never exposing themselves.
 

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If you both had an agreement that both partners would engage in sex with other couples or people, I would say it was an open marriage with swinging as the style of open marriage (in it for sexual gratification) – the other style being polyamory (love/emotional involvement).

What you are describing seems to be a wife sharing fetish, which could include threesomes, but it does seem to indicate him having a cuckold fetish.
· Being a cuckold means that he is aware of your sexual activities and he derives sexual pleasure from knowing you have intercourse with other people.
· The wife is this arrangement is most often referred to as a hotwife - a wife who is sexually uninhibited who has the freedom within her marriage to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men.

There are different arrangements, and no one arrangement is going to be exactly the same, but it’s still cuckolding, unless he’s taking part. Him wanting to listen or have you tell him every detail is simply a bit of voyeurism thrown in.
 

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I've always liked watching and sharing my wife, when I was married, and any of my GF's but I didn't just 'watch' I enjoyed in. There was never any humiliation involved at any time. For me it is just the idea of watching, hearing, smelling, tasting, emotions, etc all wrapped up in a huge bundle. Its a total rush for mmf for me vs ffm.
 

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Yes, MFM fantasies are extremely common, if not as common as FMF, or FFM.

I've always been under the impression that if same gender letters are beside each other, it indicates sexual touching between members of the same sex (i.e., MMF as opposed to MFM). However, with threesomes involving two women, the distinction may not be made nearly as often as female homosexuality does not not carry much of a taboo like male homosexuality does, at least in the world of heterosexual pornogropahy (women do want men want). As such, whether the two "F" letters are back-to-back or not in the threesome description is of little importance (though we all know that in reality a lot of women are very disinterested in other women; many would rather porn featuring no women - a fact that hard to swallow by many T & A men [pardon the pun]).
 

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Well you have an open relationship, in which he gets sexual pleasure from you getting the most pleasure possible. He is a mixture of a vouyer/cuckold/submissive partner who takes sexual gratification from you getting the most sexual pleasure possible. If I had to pick however he is more of a cuckold. Because it is such a broad spectrum. If he allows you to duck other men, then in the basic def. he is a cuckold. Whether he joins in or not, you cuckolded him.
 

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He may be the boyfriend of a "hotgirlfriend" (think Hotwife)........ yes, think about it.
If you two are equals having fun with your sex and sexing others, you're a Hotgirlfriend.
If you humiliate him and go out sexing without his knowledge or consent, he's a cuck and you're a cuckoldress.....
If it plays well in your living room, let it play.
 

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If you both had an agreement that both partners would engage in sex with other couples or people, I would say it was an open marriage with swinging as the style of open marriage (in it for sexual gratification) – the other style being polyamory (love/emotional involvement).

What you are describing seems to be a wife sharing fetish, which could include threesomes, but it does seem to indicate him having a cuckold fetish.
· Being a cuckold means that he is aware of your sexual activities and he derives sexual pleasure from knowing you have intercourse with other people.
· The wife is this arrangement is most often referred to as a hotwife - a wife who is sexually uninhibited who has the freedom within her marriage to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men.

There are different arrangements, and no one arrangement is going to be exactly the same, but it’s still cuckolding, unless he’s taking part. Him wanting to listen or have you tell him every detail is simply a bit of voyeurism thrown in.

I agree with those descriptions, though there are other fetishes or rituals or role-playing situations that grow out of this pattern which may or may not be consensual or even conscious. For example, women who have a condition known as borderline personality disorder sometimes go through a repetitive pattern of having sex with other men in order to provoke their SO into beating or raping them.