He ripped my vagina

[Mike hung]

Sex with my ex-girlfriend never went longer than 10 minutes since she got sore really fast. I always wanted to go longer, but what's the point when she's in pain and actually bleeding? Plus we always had to use a shit ton of lube or otherwise i couldn't even get it in. Same happened to me with other women, too.

I'm nowhere near being monstrous in size so i can only imagine how hard it must be for the "9 inch plus"-crowd.

 

[Mike hung]

Yeah it really can be an issue, I'm not just really long but ridiculously thick with it, I enjoy a really active sex life but I've also caused some nasty injuries to women because of my size

 

[At.your.cervix]

Slight vaginal tearing sometimes happens when you have a firm thick penis, especially if you, like me, seldom come quickly. Lots of foreplay and lube usually helps a lot, but even then I've still unintentionally caused a bit of next-day spotting from outer tears when the stars were crossed. Most times the girl didn't realize that I had torn her vagina, just that the stretching sensation was a little more intense than she was used to--at least that's what I was told. I'm sure some has to do with the size and firmness of your penis, the size and wetness of her vagina, the speed, intensity, and angle of your thrusting, and how long you two go at it. . .and probably a whole host of other factors. I absolutely love going down on my partners for long, long, periods of time, yet this still has happened to a few of the women who I've been with. The bad part is that if you're thick enough, sometimes a little tearing might happen with some partners no matter how careful you are; the good news is that, provided she uses a little common sense and some good hygiene, those tears heal up within several days. And, if there is such a penis/vagina size mismatch so great that the tearing is actually severe and frequent, maybe you'll either just have to find new partners or learn to enjoy sex without P/V penetration--there are worse things in life.

 

[littleguyhugedick]

It has happen to some of my chicks. The jerk should have taken his time. Sex is for pleasure. Next time take things slow ad use a GOOD lube

 

[Clamster]

A well hung friend of mine has caused this tearing with 2 Asian girls he was seeing. The trouble was that he liked to pound them for extended sessions and also caused problems with their cervix. He is now with Polish girl and has no problems with no change of behaviour

 

[Uncutpete]

well it looks and feels like everything's healed up now, no pain at all, doesn't hurt to pee, etc etc

i don't think i need to talk to the gyno, i feel pretty much fine now.

I'm really happy you are healed and feeling better, and I'm sorry that the first tear was so upsetting for you. You actually got some very good advice here, so let me sum it up.
Most important: Communication! Talk to each other about how this all is going
Foreplay! lots of oral for you (it is your right, tell him). If your body has that kind of response, two orgasms! As part of that foreplay, lubed with his saliva, make sure he penetrates you with one, then two, then three (not necessarily all the way) fingers. Do this slowly allowing your labia and inner tissues to stretch. Practice relaxing.
When it's time to take his cock inside you, no ramming it in (young guy mistake). Use a lube like Astroglide, and even then he should penetrate in short strokes getting a little deeper each time. He should be checking with you all the time. Then you can move into the real stuff.
A few other notes. A foreskin helps reduce tearing because it needs less lube. The cock moves inside it.
My cock is on the larger end of this site. I have had sex with more women than most men here. Using, these steps, I have had very few tearing issues.... but I still have had a few. EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT. Some girls have very small vaginas. You may still have a little tearing when you fuck long and hard with a big cock... but not nearly as bad as that first time. Some good antibiotic ointment helps if it happens.
Happy fucking!!

 

[thongboy]

I'm really happy you are healed and feeling better, and I'm sorry that the first tear was so upsetting for you. You actually got some very good advice here, so let me sum it up.
Most important: Communication! Talk to each other about how this all is going
Foreplay! lots of oral for you (it is your right, tell him). If your body has that kind of response, two orgasms! As part of that foreplay, lubed with his saliva, make sure he penetrates you with one, then two, then three (not necessarily all the way) fingers. Do this slowly allowing your labia and inner tissues to stretch. Practice relaxing.
When it's time to take his cock inside you, no ramming it in (young guy mistake). Use a lube like Astroglide, and even then he should penetrate in short strokes getting a little deeper each time. He should be checking with you all the time. Then you can move into the real stuff.
A few other notes. A foreskin helps reduce tearing because it needs less lube. The cock moves inside it.
My cock is on the larger end of this site. I have had sex with more women than most men here. Using, these steps, I have had very few tearing issues.... but I still have had a few. EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT. Some girls have very small vaginas. You may still have a little tearing when you fuck long and hard with a big cock... but not nearly as bad as that first time. Some good antibiotic ointment helps if it happens.
Happy fucking!!

I have a 9 inch cock, and when I first hooked up with my gf, I told her I was worried about hurting her. She told me not to worry because pussies differed in size and she knew she could take all of me. I asked her how she knew and she said she and her gf had experimented with different length dildos to see how much they could take before a large cock would hit the cervix. So I'm able to go balls deep in both her pussy and her ass, but I'm glad I'm medium thickness. I'm glad I'm not beer-can size because I don't want to hurt a partner. And I when I'm with a guy, I don't want him to top me if he's too thick.
But the bottom line with all fucking is to go slow with a new partner and be considerate

 

[Nosuportneeded]

Slight vaginal tearing sometimes happens when you have a firm thick penis, especially if you, like me, seldom come quickly. Lots of foreplay and lube usually helps a lot, but even then I've still unintentionally caused a bit of next-day spotting from outer tears when the stars were crossed. Most times the girl didn't realize that I had torn her vagina, just that the stretching sensation was a little more intense than she was used to--at least that's what I was told. I'm sure some has to do with the size and firmness of your penis, the size and wetness of her vagina, the speed, intensity, and angle of your thrusting, and how long you two go at it. . .and probably a whole host of other factors. I absolutely love going down on my partners for long, long, periods of time, yet this still has happened to a few of the women who I've been with. The bad part is that if you're thick enough, sometimes a little tearing might happen with some partners no matter how careful you are; the good news is that, provided she uses a little common sense and some good hygiene, those tears heal up within several days. And, if there is such a penis/vagina size mismatch so great that the tearing is actually severe and frequent, maybe you'll either just have to find new partners or learn to enjoy sex without P/V penetration--there are worse things in life.

This^^

I have caused mild tearing a couple of times that I know of. Once was because she wanted to feel the stretch of slowly pushing in her pussy when it was not all the way wet and aroused. Duh! It was not rough or violent, but extremely pleasurable for both. We do this from time to time. When she tore, it was very early in the relationship and she had not had a thick penis for quite some time. It had more to do with us being forceful than our size mismatch.

The tear was noticed after the fact both times and she stated that she felt it when it happened, but thought little of, just a little sting with the stretch.

Heals in a couple days if you are good to it and don't fuck it. Probably happens at times we don't know. Also, same girl that tore also fisted herself and didn't tear, so, yeah, prep.

 

[Mikehuntishuge]

Had a girl that that tore pretty bad. We were young (legal age), she had limited experience and was super tight, lots of spit, lot of attempted entry then rubbing the head through her puffy lips, try again. Got in and she was really squirming/ struggling. With only a couple inches in I asked if I should pull it back out, she said no I just think you to big for me, just go slow. Got a rhythm going using a few inches, so tight! Then after a few minutes she was really wet and "open up" like crazy. I started getting some full strokes, her saying it hurt, me asking if she wanted to stop, her saying hell no. You sure? No, go ahead, I want to do this. I fucked her brains out. I creampied her, in missionary, after there was pink jizzum stains on the sheets. I freaked, thought she was a virgin, she assured me she was not a virgin but the couple guys before were not thick like me. She said your to thick, I think you split me in half. Next day, she's not in classes. I call her after school (no cell phones), she was home, sore and burning. She wanted me to come over after a couple days, Same scenario, super tight for a few minutes, then open up to what I would almost call a loose pussy. I was fascinated and the looser she got the harder I fucked her. It went this way every time the dozen times I fucked her. Never had doctor confirmation of a tear, but I assume that was what was happening

 

[Girthy99]

This literally happened to my wife for the first 10-12 years of marriage. She would get little tears right at the bottom. Would hurt for a few days. Usually had to have 2-3 day break between sex. Kinda sucked cause we could only have sex 3 times a week for so many years. Now she is ok. I have to go down on her for quite awhile and use lube then go very slow to let her adjust then she is ok. Hope this helps.

 

[HorseHung40's]

I have never done this to a woman with whom I was intimate. This is truly unfortunate. I do hope that you are well soon.

In future, be upfront about what you will and won't do in bed. I would hate to see this happen to you again.