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My BF and I have been together for 3 years. He's 23 I'm 52. A big age difference but it's working. The problem I always thought about was the experience gap. I'm only the second guy he's ever had sex with. At my age, I stopped counting.
This morning he started talking about "adding spice" to our relationship and asked me if I would consider a 3 way. Not to JUMP at the idea I was relaxed about it and said that if he's open to try it, I would be too. I also qualified the whole thing suggesting that HE arrange it. I don't want to advertise or look for a guy because it might appear to be too forward to the BF. If it's him who is interested, let him look for someone to join us.
Tell me what your thoughts are on this please. Is this a sign of trouble or dissatisfaction or genuine curiosity?
Thanks for the opinions and advice!!
J
This morning he started talking about "adding spice" to our relationship and asked me if I would consider a 3 way. Not to JUMP at the idea I was relaxed about it and said that if he's open to try it, I would be too. I also qualified the whole thing suggesting that HE arrange it. I don't want to advertise or look for a guy because it might appear to be too forward to the BF. If it's him who is interested, let him look for someone to join us.
Tell me what your thoughts are on this please. Is this a sign of trouble or dissatisfaction or genuine curiosity?
Thanks for the opinions and advice!!
J