Hearts, Flowers, Dancing

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  1. Wyldgusechaz

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    For the holidays:

    Ladies most of you probably know that lots of hotels offer *Romance Evenings* where the hotel does up your room in a romantic way. My experience has been the room is showered with rose petals, decorative heart cut outs, champagne (my fave Vieve Clicquot), and fine chocolates lovers can feed to one another. Of course if you arrive after a night on the town the bed is turned down and there are robes for two. I like to spice it up a bit by lingerie shopping earlier for (as a health care worker might say *unidose*) camisole or teddy and thong. I hate the idea of having to unbutton or sliding off, seems a bit mechanical). The idea of reaching down and tearing open your cover up, exposing all your wonderfull goodies is a rush. some of the underwire bras seem to be made of concrete rebar, though.. Need a bolt cutters to rip open so nix on those.

    Here is the weird part for me. The sex ends up being really hot and nasty, hotel sex is great. I mean really nasty and hot. You ladies seem to eat up the flowers and candy like life itself and I ain't complaining, Leads to amazing sex. As a guy I don't really need the rose petals and candy tho the booze is nice. Drinking licking champagne from your bodies is smokin" . What is about that frilly stuff thats stokes your fires or maybe it doesn't.?

    Second Q: Dancing. Really hot dancing I mean body to body especially any of the latin dances usually involves some intimate genital rubbing. I have taken ballroom dancing ( I know I am a neaderthal closet cavemen in some eyes here) And the instructors always talk frame and one of the frames is chest (tits) out, shoulders held back, (put some light glitter in your cleavage and a cutout revealing dress, i love women who have beautiful posture) and I will spring wood right there. I am very uncomfrotable especially with a new dancer if I get hard. Does it make you uncomfortable if your guy especially maybe just a casual dancer springs wood? What would you want us to do with that inadvertent erection? Is it exciting knowing you made him hard? Do you kinda feel for size in some way? Do you just say lets sit this out? If you are open to being seduced is that a thrill?
     
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    Wyld one,

    YOu have just explained to me why a former LPSGer and buddy loves Latin dance. Dirty dog! LOL! Also my girlfriend has sworn for years to go take ballroom dancing because that was how she met her husband ,They have been married for the last 4 years and are still embarrasing to be around....







     
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    I'd probably get a kick out of the hotel evening -- sounds like fun. Maybe somebody can send ToolMan a hint...

    I can't dance worth shit so I don't have much to offer there, except that a few times, when I have slow-danced with a man, he has gotten an erection. It doesn't bother me in the least. It's a natural response to being so close to a woman, and it may or may not even be specifically about me.
     
  4. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    With a hotel room i find i am more turned on by being in a different place. The fact that when im having sex you dont have to think about the bathtub is dirty or the dishes need to be done or how am i going to get that stain off the sheets we just put there. Its knowing that for that night that hotel room is your only world, no relatives phoning, no neighbours at the door, no noisy garbage truck waking me up in the morning. Of course the flowers, chocolates help but thats more just to take my mind off reality.

    As for the dancing. As long as i know the guy im dancing with i take it as a compliment if he cracks wood (its always a compliment) but if its somone im dancing with for the first time i dont say anything but just try to back off and calm the the way we are dancing down a bit, create a bit of air space between the two of us
     
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    I think it's just Hotel sex in general. The "Romantic Evening" bit is too cliche for me. But the thought of being in a nice hotel room with those fantastic fluffy robes and room service at my beckoned call makes me feel a bit special. The small Bed and Breakfasts down the Surf coast here in Victoria are always a good palce to get away for a dirty weekend.

    We've often gone interstate just for the weekend as it always turns into a raunchy time.

    Dancing? No, I'm sorry but the Gods of rythym deserted me a long time ago. I can slow shuffle but I've no idea what I'm really doing. If the guy happens to get hard from a slow dance then it's flattering, as long as it's not a relative. Then it's just wierd.
     
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    I seem to be in the minority here. The hotel thing doesn't do a lot for me at all... hearts and candy and rose petals and all that are way too cliche and seem artificial to me. I just don't like things to feel so manufactured. Maybe some of it is due to the fact that I work about 20 -30 weddings a year and when I'm not working, hearts and roses are the last things I want to see because I am so inundated by them at work.

    I also have the worst time sleeping in hotel beds. I'm as bad as my 85 year old grandmother about that. I like being in my own bed and my own surroundings with all the things I'm used to. The idea of a hotel stresses me out a little, period, because I know I'll be tossing and turning all night when/if I try to sleep.

    The last thing about this is that I'm very much turned on by spontaneity. I like it when sex is left open-ended. The more planning that's done, even if it's a surprise to me, the more I feel pressured to enjoy myself even if, for whatever reason, I'm not all that horny. I feel terribly guilty if so much time and money has been spent on me and I'm just not in the mood. Being in a hotel doesn't turn me on. In fact, hotels feel rather institutional to me, even the nice ones. They are the wayside for lonely businessment and famillies trying really hard to have fun on their few days off of work for a year.

    The other thing that I just really don't get is food and sex. Feeding chocolate to me while drinking champagne again seems really manufactured and cliche, and incorporating eating into sex just seems like a distraction and kinda gross. Sticky melted chocolate on my ass doesn't turn me on at all. It reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where George had a big sandwich in the nightstand so he could eat it while having sex.

    Well, I've now revealed myself to be completely unromantic and boring, but there it is.

    On dancing, however, that can be really fun. I wish I could dance better because most times I'm so self-conscious about it, I can't just let myself go.
     
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    Well..dont get me wrong but what I really enjoy is not much fancy 5 star hotel I had my quote of those because of type work my ex have it, but bangalos and exotic places is my preference...open windows breeze air not much mosquitos around...confort and ocean view smells an sounds. My ideia of romantic is not much a package but I do appreciate a work man put in to preper something special...

    About dancing I still consider myself a dancer and the culture come from dance just happens when pecussion starts, is party is family fun where everybody dances with evrybody, is celebration and sensual too. For sure I do find a excelent thing a man knows how to dance well and enjoy how to dance. There are a place for everything and there is difference being sensual ad pornographic...but I'm used to some people get hot sensual on the floor but the floor is soo full of people that you are going to notice if you are paying attention to others business...but hey if is boiling hot : get a room.

    Ah..most of brasilian popular dances we dance apart and when together it is very energetic than if you are really into it ,the bodies parts will touch but kind of very fast..lol..and the man I enjoy leading me are heavy ones (not fat) who knows to dance well original samba (not ballroom style samba) they have great cadence that match mine as a glove.
     
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    I'm with ya on this Snoozan! I actually have hotter sex where I feel the most relaxed and comfortable, and all that frilly hotel stuff is NOT for me- My own hot tub at home- or my own bed or floor or table or countertop or wherever the "spontaneity" strikes (you got that one right, too, girl) If its planned then somebody has an expectation, and if there's an expectation, I just can't 'perform' lol- seriously! I don't even particularly like any hotels, fancy or plain- if I have a tent I'd rather do that.

    Oh, but ballroom dancing!! I would give, oh gosh, just about anything for a man who enjoys ballroom dancing- and I mean really likes it, and is not just doing it to appease me. Actually any dancing, that involves physical contact is incredibly sexy to me, and is like having hours of foreplay. By the time you're headed for the car, the backseat is looking like The LoveBoat.

    The wood is great if you know the tree, but its happened a couple times with total strangers, and while I recognize physiological drives and such, they went a bit far so I tend to put some more distance between us if its getting too warm.

    Food and sex? nah- one or the other. I can find ways to tease and entice and can be teased and enticed without using food. About the only way is perhaps when one knows they can do nothing about their desire for each other at that moment, then seductively sucking on a peach can really stoke the fires, and that might be as close to sex as I would go with food, really.

    But as you can see every woman is different. Know your woman!! If you aren't sure, ask. Otherwise you will be disappointed if her reaction isn't what you hoped. :wink:
     
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