For the holidays: Ladies most of you probably know that lots of hotels offer *Romance Evenings* where the hotel does up your room in a romantic way. My experience has been the room is showered with rose petals, decorative heart cut outs, champagne (my fave Vieve Clicquot), and fine chocolates lovers can feed to one another. Of course if you arrive after a night on the town the bed is turned down and there are robes for two. I like to spice it up a bit by lingerie shopping earlier for (as a health care worker might say *unidose*) camisole or teddy and thong. I hate the idea of having to unbutton or sliding off, seems a bit mechanical). The idea of reaching down and tearing open your cover up, exposing all your wonderfull goodies is a rush. some of the underwire bras seem to be made of concrete rebar, though.. Need a bolt cutters to rip open so nix on those. Here is the weird part for me. The sex ends up being really hot and nasty, hotel sex is great. I mean really nasty and hot. You ladies seem to eat up the flowers and candy like life itself and I ain't complaining, Leads to amazing sex. As a guy I don't really need the rose petals and candy tho the booze is nice. Drinking licking champagne from your bodies is smokin" . What is about that frilly stuff thats stokes your fires or maybe it doesn't.? Second Q: Dancing. Really hot dancing I mean body to body especially any of the latin dances usually involves some intimate genital rubbing. I have taken ballroom dancing ( I know I am a neaderthal closet cavemen in some eyes here) And the instructors always talk frame and one of the frames is chest (tits) out, shoulders held back, (put some light glitter in your cleavage and a cutout revealing dress, i love women who have beautiful posture) and I will spring wood right there. I am very uncomfrotable especially with a new dancer if I get hard. Does it make you uncomfortable if your guy especially maybe just a casual dancer springs wood? What would you want us to do with that inadvertent erection? Is it exciting knowing you made him hard? Do you kinda feel for size in some way? Do you just say lets sit this out? If you are open to being seduced is that a thrill?