Well, I don't post much but often am a lurker. I am not a "fit" guy by any means. I am 5'8 200lbs and yet it seems like a task talking to women, especially the hotter ones. I am a college student, but not having great self-confidence sucks in college, and what's more is that being heavier than most guys seems to be a turn off for skinner women. So can anyone guide me the right way? Do women really prefer ripped athletic guys and don't give a shit about fatter guys? This has been bothering me a lot lately, and well this seemed the best place to do so. Thanks again!