New to lpsg. I have a reasonable concern,I'm a decent plus~sized gal,large breasts,big ass,and I not only want but need a thick wide cock,my spouse tho....is not,his length is average 6"~7"and that's fine,any way of at least temporarily swelling it up,cock rings,or somethin,I don't really know what's out there,but I know what I like & want.I believe I've stumbled upon this site out of desperation,please, please help.The frustration is killing me softly...