I wasn't asking you to do research I was saying that you can't makeup bullshit in your head about someone based on comment they make which was just providing what may me an alternative point of view for some ppl. I did not mention anything about ever having used one or making a partner use one.
But your apparent mentality there should be no sex toys... lesbians shouldn't use dildos as it would be an insult to their partner cos she doesn't have a cock, women shouldn't use strap ons on a man because that would also insult her for not having a cock, and so on. If two adults are consenting to something then they can do whatever the hell they like and it doesn't mean that the one finds the other deficient.