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Hi. It's hard to start writing about this, but I feel like I must.. I'm sharing myself with you , and I don't understand so many things. Please, as a male sex, help me understand this, I read so many times, I heard, not only here, but also, that manual work ( hand job) is more pleasant than vaginal sex, due to the weaker friction or sensations in the vagina. I'm not writing this as a troll, I'm sad that I have to ask about such things, that they are not obvious. But that's the way it is, because that's how it is in life. always not as it should be- and sex is a good example. My first question is; if you think that a hand with lubricant feels amazing - then why are you having sex? for intimacy? out of boredom? variety?? - you can ask the girl for a hand job. Why go inside the vagina if it doesn't feel better?

Why does you partner's hand feel better than vagina? why the vagina, which was supposed to be best, even lost to the hand? on porn, a guy cums by hand in a minute, so I can see that a woman's hand must be much nicer than a vagina. what do you feel when we do it by hand that it's so wonderful? what does a vagina not offer? is it true that you think that to do you good it's better to have lotion and use your hand than your vagina? that the vagina is for intimacy? you don't feel anything in vagina? Is no friction there? how could it happen that the hand is better than the pussy physically? so the vagina can't give what the hand can? grip, tightness, fingers, and the hand can control everything? even lubricant, and here the vagina loses technically? that's why you don't give up masturbation when you have sex. So why don't you tell your partner instead of masturbating yourself. Your hand is better than a vagina, use your hand and I won't have to masturbate alone? what are you doing sex for? please write honestly, I don't want to hear that the vagina is better because it is intimacy, I don"/ care about it now. I'm asking physically, please. What's all the effort about sex for? when can you get a hand? You will feel tight,moist, more pleasant. What's the point of pretending, tormenting yourself to cum? I'm trying to come to terms with it, and sex doesn't make much sense, but I appreciate your honesty. Why doesn't everyone say that in the beginning? why try sex with girls? Thats not fair.. I appreciate every answer. So please tell me why when a girl jerks you off with an oil, it feels better than a vagina, and why she is failed experiment? vaginal softness is a problem?or what .. that she doesn't know? Pressure ? ..
I' m asking you for real help, i know it was topic like this, but now..im listen.
 
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The first thing I want to mention, and I've alluded to this before when you've asked this question, is that penile-vaginal intercourse doesn't exist in a vacuum. It's not some random thing that has no larger meaning. It, and the particular intensity of the orgasm it produces, is an evolutionary imperative whose particular biological purpose is to ensure the continuation of the species.

If that type of orgasm didn't exist, the cost-benefit ratio of sticking one's penis into a vagina would possibly not be great enough to ensure the survival of humanity. If it weren't incredibly fun and enjoyable to do, men might not have seen it as worth the bother, since it results in the responsibility of child-bearing. (Again, I'm looking at this in a strictly evolutionary sense, never mind the modern world has both birth control and rational men tamed by centuries of civilization.)

All this is to say that the uniqueness of the orgasm during intercourse has a foundational purpose intrinsic to our** experience as human beings. Sex certainly isn't just about orgasm, but the feelings of intimacy and the thrill of the pursuit also have a biological and evolutionary purpose.

If you are going to keep asking this question, I think we need to understand why you aren't able to run the test yourself and try sex with a woman. Are you disabled in some way? I think only an experiential understanding of the comparisons between the two sensations will be enough for you to understand the answer to your question. Until you talk about why you haven't been able to have sex with a woman, there's limited utility in people trying to explain in writing why they prefer pussies to their hand.

(**I'm using our in the broadest possible sense, to describe humanity as a whole.)
 
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If i'm not honest.. you won't understand me. I'm not quite a guy...
but please.. don't close the topic for me

If i'm not honest.. you won't understand me. I need you guys, If I wasn't a guy, what would you write to me about this topic?
I tried to write an honest and heartfelt response (and I'm not even straight!), and you completely ignored me. So now I'm done with you too.
 
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