Hello - I'm Stacy

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Hi everyone! I am Stacy, a 38 year old married woman from Indiana, USA. I am 5'4", 100#, blond hair, green eyes, and very excited but nervous to join this site!

So what brings me here? If you will indulge me, I'll tell you a bit about me. I have been happily married for 15 years. My husband and I have had a very active and pleasant sex life for the entirety of our marriage. He was only the second man I slept with and (with 7 inches) I thought him to be a very good and powerful lover. However, recently I have had my whole sexual world turned upside down. After 15 years of fidelity, I had a moment of weakness and allowed myself to be seduced and taken by another man while my husband was out of town. This experience has completely shaken my view on sex and on the importance of size. The man I cheated with took my breath away with the size of his cock. He was exceptionally endowed, at least 9 inches long and very thick. The sex was like nothing I have ever felt before. For the first time in my life I understand what it means to be fully satisfied. My world was rocked and forever changed.

Even though I feel incredibly guilty, I can't stop thinking about it. I have become a bit obsessed with well endowed men. I had never looked at porn before, but now I find myself sneaking online to look at pictures of well hung men and fantasizing about how they could make me feel. Sex with my husband is still okay but it just doesn't compare.

So I found and joined this site. I'm not sure what I'm looking for out of it. I guess maybe I'm just looking for validation that it is okay and normal to feel this way. Maybe I'm just using that as an excuse to look at the pictures of the members. Maybe I'm looking for more............ I'm not sure, but I know I am drawn to this site strongly and I look forward to getting to know the members.

Stacy
 
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Welcome. My wife read your opening remarks. She said, "Amen" to the size situation. After we got married and started having sex every day, sometimes more, she said my size does matter and she enjoys it. Enjoy yourself, especially the photographs, and have fun.
 

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I'm not a marriage counselor, but I play one on LPSG. Been reading advice columns for decades and I think they would say something like "It was just the novelty of a one-night stand that you found so exciting after years of same-old same-old. You should seek to reconnect with your husband by exploring ways to achieve greater sexual satisfaction." What they won't tell you is there are many non-traditional marriages. Some husbands like to see their wives having sex with hung guys. You could explore fisting or big dildoes with your hubby . Sneaking around having an affair is probably the worst thing you could do.
 

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I have been happily married for 15 years. My husband and I have had a very active and pleasant sex life for the entirety of our marriage.

After 15 years of fidelity, I had a moment of weakness and allowed myself to be seduced and taken by another man while my husband was out of town.

... I feel incredibly guilty, I can't stop thinking about it.

I guess maybe I'm just looking for validation that it is okay and normal to feel this way.

Stacy

Welcome Stacy,

I have extracted the above quote from your post as what I saw as relevant.

We are a skeptical bunch here because often people join with fictional profiles posing as someone they are not.

Giving you the benefit of the doubt.
Sounds to me like you need some serious marriage counseling.
You are endangering your marriage for what? :confused:

And from the sounds of things the cheating was not prompted by the size of someone's penis. It was only after you got naked that the size was apparent and only after you had sex did you make a judgment on the quality of it versus what you were used to.

Many here have been cheated on and will not validate your cheating.
But there are always those who will agree with the position you have done nothing wrong. If you seek those, you will find them along with those who will even encourage you or request to join in.

Good Luck :smile:
 

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My wife wants to go with a guy or guys that have a Huge Horse size cock. The only prob is that we have been looking for over 5 yrs with no luck. She wants a guy with at least 8 inches or more or very very very fat. 99% of all the guys that e-mail us say they are 8 inches. Give me a break. Does 8 inches or more exist and is close to bayonne NJ.
 

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My wife wants to go with a guy or guys that have a Huge Horse size cock. The only prob is that we have been looking for over 5 yrs with no luck. She wants a guy with at least 8 inches or more or very very very fat. 99% of all the guys that e-mail us say they are 8 inches. Give me a break. Does 8 inches or more exist and is close to bayonne NJ.
Have you seen some of the pictures here? Many on this site meet your requirements(not me).
 

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Many here have been cheated on and will not validate your cheating.
I am one of them.

cheating is not cool, and thats why I will NEVER trust a woman as far as I can throw them, nor will I ever get married to one. it sounds like you have a good marriage. what if your hubby finds out and wants a divorce? not only could it ruin him financially, but mentally also, and all because of what? because he has a "small" dick which isnt even small at all? not cool at all and its threads like this that make me want to remain single/unmarried.

But there are always those who will agree with the position you have done nothing wrong.

these are the guys who havnt been cheated on yet, or are not married yet IMO. wait till they get married or cheated on because their woman found someone "more perfect" than them and karma bites them in the ass, well see how fun/funny it is then.