When ever i see a girl that i would like to go up to and talk to her I dont know how to.
The whole point is to engage CONVERSATION. Women appreciate being talked to, as opposed to being fed pick-up lines (yuck).
When ever i see a girl that i would like to go up to and talk to her I dont know how to.
Are you from heaven? Cause i've got an erection. Wait...
I have a pickup line that works every time:When ever i see a girl that i would like to go up to and talk to her I dont know how to.
I have a pickup line that works every time:
"Hi. How are you?"
Never fails. Never have gotten a negative response to it, either. It's non-threatening, non-sexist. Got everything going for it, just like you, tiger. Now, go use it on some pretty girl.
NO! NO! You are not listening. Even when it is random--especially when it is random, do. not. think of any of it as "pick-up line shit". THAT is why you have so much trouble with women. It's because listening well is a vital social skill, and you need to develop that skill more.LOL yeah! and then what?
"I'm good how are you?" "good...(maybe a smile)"
"I'm so and so (stretch out to handshake) At this point the girl is already looking at you weird.
and lets say that nothing creeps her out and she is all smiles, then what? can I have your number? won't work. chances are if this is a casual situation you will never see her again, so you will feel inclined to jump forward and ask her for her number, but at this point you will already look foolish, desperate.
if she is a class mate or in a party or club, then it could work, but if this is strictly random, off the street, "pick-up" line shit, you have no chance unless she is the one that is playing you and will be the one charging.
NO! NO! You are not listening. Even when it is random--especially when it is random, do. not. think of any of it as "pick-up line shit". THAT is why you have so much trouble with women. It's because listening well is a vital social skill, and you need to develop that skill more.
What people are trying to tell you is be natural. Be easy. Be yourself.
When I talk to people I don't know, it is always about whatever is happening around us. For instance, the other night I was doing the washing. A guy came in, and eyeballed a machine I knew was occupied. I told him it was full, and smiled at him over my shoulder. I went back to my folding. He smiled back and told me that he only needed the one vacant machine anyway. I turned back to him again, smiled, and nodded. When he went for a dryer as well, I made a joke about there being no room at the inn. All the dryers were full. He clearly hated my joke. Just . . . hated it. So I smirked and shrugged. I loaded my clothes back into my hamper, and when I was ready to go, he smiled, and held the door for me, and then made his exit as well. He was very handsome. If I were single, I would have let all that good-natured smiling between us lead into a chat. I would not worry about my bombed joke. I'd tell him his scent was incredible, and ask him about his fabric softener. Or, maybe I'd deliver a dire warning about that tragically, chronically broken washer he'd opted to use, or let him know that one of the dryers has a damaged payment system, and is free to use. I'd find something relevant to talk to hm about. If I was really running on empty, I might find something about him that reminds of something about someone, something, or someplace else, and tell him a funny or sweet story about it. But that's me. I'm a social butterfly, I love talking to random people, and because of practice, I am very good at it.
If you do not genuinely enjoy talking, ever, you cannot meet new people. If you find chat with someone pleasurable, and perceive that they have enjoyed talking to you too, simply ask for a way to chat again in the future. "Hahahaha, you're pretty funny. Can I call you sometime? May I give you my number?"
I think you are seriously over-thinking this. Meet someone. Talk about something relevant. Ask for future contact. Never expect anything. The less you expect, the better your results will be.