bobcubed404: Another newbie here.
Thelastoneever2000 makes an interesting point regarding one's own perception of how large or small that they believe they are. Up until the mid-90's I thought that I was average in size, at best. My perception of size was based on several things, such as visual comparison from what I had seen over the years in showers, locker rooms, etc... when everyone was flaccid. The deceptive nature of porn videos did not help. I have had a relatively small number of lovers in my life, and only one who was actually open about discussing certain aspects of sex, such as this one. My hands are small, so even though I usually can't get my hand completely around my penis when it is erect I still didn't think it was more than average. This point in particular is strange to me in hindsight as I can get my hand completely around the neck of a guitar, with the exception of a classical guitar, and why I didn't make that connection is something I cannot explain. My idea of what "big" is didn't change until two things came together to alter my perception: My last girlfriend and finding the internet.
In the context of the analogy that fastfastr made, I'm just a guy who only makes $20 million a year.