Hello to Other "Mature" Posters..
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Respect for one's elders only comes with elderness... don't feel like the Lone Ranger. We're not really "in play" here, so the buzz isn't there, and frankly, we don't provide it either. The responses I get from the very few friends I've made here are enough, due to the obvious quality of the person as evidenced by their posts.
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orionsword
Hey There!
In some cases I have made lite of the comment, and if not that, offer a bit of humor to the topic.
S-o-o-o many here want to briing out the down side of a big dick and I quite frankly have experienced a number of set backs, NEVER a problem (except for a giggle or two) in the saunas or on the beach.
In the end, I HAVE THE LAST GIGGLE...............
ANYWAY....I do appreciate you all, hope to be of benefit, and in some cases don't do as I did!
blackwood
Holy Moly !
Mr. Blackwood,
Thanks for stickin' around and helping.
What specifically do you mean by "My sex life ended"..?
Did the cardio/diabetes render you impotent ?
Did the Dr. order you to "Never Have Sex !" ?
What advice have you ?
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Aruba,
Good day to ya!
With a painful smile
Coronary artery disease came first (WHO knows) the diabetes and two stroke that have reduced my vision to looking thru bubble wrap in one eye and no vision in the other. ??Blind in one can't see out of the other??
Sex: The night of June 6, 1991 my wife and I engaged in some heavy, heady sex which alway left us satisfied BUT on that night I deveoped pains in my chest and the next day.....the biggie, most scarry experience in my life.....I arrested in my office in the presence of a pharmacist. 3-3 Physician Assistants and 2 Physicians. So the best of everything took place to save me from death. The surgery did not go well and they actually had to open my chest after closure to de-due the wiring on the defibrillator.
Recommendations: No heavy physical activity and no operating vehicles.
Diabetes, Most probably associated with weight gain, after surgery as a resullt of fatty livery disease and pancreatitis.
RECOMMENDATION - Overall, no smoking and NO stress.
Lay back and enjoy what you have while you have it. No Matter howgood someday - Memories Are All You Have.
and.......always appreciate the love of your significant other, I am really Blessed because only because of her vows is she too not enjoying sex, but has been advised by me to go out and hiire herself a "ccwboy" for satisfaction.
blackwood
I am a diabetic, plus have high blood pressure. The nurse at the Doctors Office must be ok with the knowledge of what my body is still able to do. She still stands close enough to feel my bulge, and manages to brush aginst my cock and smile whenever she thinks she can get away with it, lol....Before anybody thinks I am so damn good looking that young nurses chase me, lol......the nurse I refer to is my age, lololol I ain't no where near that lucky (or unlucky depending on how you look at it). lololol :wow:
never stop to fall in love again please..
wheather you are 18 ore 85....
http://video.search.yahoo.com/video/view?&...=297.1kB&dur=27
wheather you are 18 ore 85....
http://video.search.yahoo.com/video/view?&...=297.1kB&dur=27
Bummer !
Did you inherit the liver and pancreas problem ?
Were they caused by your lifestyle (smoking, heavy drinking, litle exercise ?)
What should WE do to protect these.
10-4.
10-4.
What a GUY !
(and gal !
I got Lucky Too.
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Only family history - Father, Uncle, Cousin died due to Pancreatice Cancer at a young age.
Went to Holiday Party events, did do cocktails. Did (rarely) become intoxicated. "Holidays" did not include events like "Garbage Pick-up Day", "The lawn go mowed today?, "PAYDAY!!!. I mean real, and infrequent "Days of the Year".
I was a smoker, HEAVY! I also worked in a very high pressure management position which REQUIRED 12 to 14 hour days, Many occasions of 24 hours a day for 2-3 days per week.
I blame myself for being too available to my (employers) supervisors.
and..........................
SMOKING, SMOKING, SMOKING................................
Pancreatitis? Probably due to the lake of exercise, serious weight gain which occured after the the first Heart Attack and CABG.
and #2.....................
Maybe I just wasn't a good enough of a person, earlier in my life. (Rationale)) is smoking really that bad???????????????????
blackwood
madame_zora
Sexy Member
Blackwood, your post broke my heart. Bad thing happen to good people all the time, and for no reason! You didn't deserve to have a heart attack, chances are you knew nothing of the risks of smoking when you started, as we know so little about the causes of cancer still. Sounds like you and your wife are both lucky to have each other, believe me many of us go through life with much less.
Please don't ever think no one is listening to you, your posts of late have been making me very happy indeed. If I don't respond to every one of them it is only because I try (believe it or not) not to completely monopolise the board. You are a much loved member here, and I know I'm not alone in saying that.
I'm a mature poster too. 42 years old, three divorces under my belt, more jobs than even I can count, life has neither been steady or easy, but we all find our place in the world no matter what our struggles. I think it was a good idea to start a thread for the older and wiser set (or in my case just older )
Please don't ever think no one is listening to you, your posts of late have been making me very happy indeed. If I don't respond to every one of them it is only because I try (believe it or not) not to completely monopolise the board. You are a much loved member here, and I know I'm not alone in saying that.
I'm a mature poster too. 42 years old, three divorces under my belt, more jobs than even I can count, life has neither been steady or easy, but we all find our place in the world no matter what our struggles. I think it was a good idea to start a thread for the older and wiser set (or in my case just older
)Originally posted by madame_zora@Jul 15 2005, 07:15 PM
Blackwood, your post broke my heart. Bad thing happen to good people all the time, and for no reason! You didn't deserve to have a heart attack, chances are you knew nothing of the risks of smoking when you started, as we know so little about the causes of cancer still. Sounds like you and your wife are both lucky to have each other, believe me many of us go through life with much less.
Please don't ever think no one is listening to you, your posts of late have been making me very happy indeed. If I don't respond to every one of them it is only because I try (believe it or not) not to completely monopolise the board. You are a much loved member here, and I know I'm not alone in saying that.
I'm a mature poster too. 42 years old, three divorces under my belt, more jobs than even I can count, life has neither been steady or easy, but we all find our place in the world no matter what our struggles. I think it was a good idea to start a thread for the older and wiser set (or in my case just older
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madame hello again,
I am most fotunate for the relationship that I have with my wife.
One big problem in chat rooms, is the absence of visual contact which affords a view of the listeners' understanding OR mis-understanding.
You certainly are NOT an old-timer, though you do have a history and subsequently guidance to give.......Valuable handling of many parts of your life. I have found your posts to be very well stated and can provide someone guidance.
I thank you for your response to the postings and want you to know that empathy is mosre important than sympathy. I did not state my physical disasters to do any more than explain the base origins of MY handling of MY life.
Your response here has been very graceful and I will in the future appreciate the fact that my .02 cents worth is being read.
blackwood
Wow.
Bummer.
Did they have any children - your Uncle and Cousin ?
Do you have any sisters, brothers or children ?
Roger that, so...
You didn't drink very much....
Ug,
Okay.
We shouldn't smoke or drink if we can manage without...
M-m-m-m-m,
most of us follow a regular exercise program and eat properly (we hope).
Pancreatitis is very nasty - {we should all pray for the survival and recovery of those who
acquire this malady}presently an incurable, terminal disease.
What's "CABQ" ?
H-m-m-m-m.
Seems to me one can always "wipe-out" past transgressions if one behaves properly in later life.... (Don't tell my Ma Honey but - I'M COUNTING ON IT !!!!!
If you are hanging around with friends who deny this concept you need to Change Friends !!One of the reasons why we gain so much knowledge as we age is to help with this situation. By staying an active member of LPSG and responding to these questions with advice you are serving those who follow, and helping them NOT make mistakes which you may - or may not - have made.
This is a Good Thing.
When one is young, forgiving is difficult.
The Big Biker is no longer Young.
She/He forgives easily.
None of us knows what happens after being welcomed by the Big Biker In The Sky - except for those who have exercised and built up their Time Bank and are rudely returned (down here) to complete their "mission".
I believe it would behoove us all to infuse our Time Bank by exercising regularly - as Mr. Blackwood suggests. There is a possibility that if one exercises, the Crew keeps track; and if you arrive prematurely at the Gate - and have built up your Time Line by exercising - you may receive further time and another chance....
Sorry Mr. Blackwood, but...
Yes Sir.
It is a nasty habit.
Pecker you are my hero. I thought I was the only one who hasn't had sex since marriage. I have errection prob and am getting shotsfrom Dr. to hopefully correct the situation..
OBB2004
OBB2004
orionsword57:
When we reach "our age group", that's the victory! You've had some shit health-wise, it would appear, but being able to laugh in triumph as one mulls over one's life is the sweetest sound and feeling of all. It carries one through.
When we reach "our age group", that's the victory! You've had some shit health-wise, it would appear, but being able to laugh in triumph as one mulls over one's life is the sweetest sound and feeling of all. It carries one through.
When we reach "our age group", that's the victory! You've had some shit health-wise, it would appear, but being able to laugh in triumph as one mulls over one's life is the sweetest sound and feeling of all. It carries one through.
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Short of being considered a dirty ole man, He He, or dirty ole men, I venture to offer a point that with all of our years combined, there is little that we have'nt done. Except for sex with a Martian or Uh, Maybe not a good example as I think about it. (argh) or little we have'nt had.
I think our knowledge scares the younger who feel they are the pace setters for sexual innovations. Accidently or on purpose, I bet we have done it all.
more he he hes!
blackwood
orionsword57:
Amen on that! There was at least one woman I knew who would have gotten along with most Martians, but that's another story....
We've seen things.... made the mistakes.... gotten joy and sorrow from things that no longer exist.... and we did in without artifiicial stimuli that gradually deplete the capacities of those who use them. You and I can still hear beautiful things that are denied the young who have destroyed their ear drums with the loud noise some now call music. Good to find a kindred spirit!
Amen on that! There was at least one woman I knew who would have gotten along with most Martians, but that's another story....
We've seen things.... made the mistakes.... gotten joy and sorrow from things that no longer exist.... and we did in without artifiicial stimuli that gradually deplete the capacities of those who use them. You and I can still hear beautiful things that are denied the young who have destroyed their ear drums with the loud noise some now call music. Good to find a kindred spirit!
I can remember when I was a young'n, staying with my Grandparents and listening with wonder and excitement to them having sex in the next room. They were in their late 60's early 70's then and I know for a fact that they didn't have any of the wonder drugs we have today. Wonder what they knew that we don't??
