It's good to know somethinglike this exists. I'm not on the super high end of the spectrum. I'm 8.25 long and 6 inches around at the base. but I'm also 6'2" 300 lb. former college football player. To me I look and feel like a light switch and have always had self confident issues. Plus, I thought i was getting lip service from girlfriends who would make comments about my size. I've never had a girllfriend that I didn't hit her cervix. I thought that was normal. Anyways, Hello, I did some research and tried this site on a whim. Thank you for having me.