I have been reading following this sight for a few years but have never taken the time to say hello. I am early 60s, lost my wife of 40 yrs to alzheimers 2 yrs ago. Have since married a lovely lady and am trying to build a new life. One would think he would just pick up and start over but at 60 a man has a lot of traits and expectations that have to be erased and tweaked to make a new relationship work. Any way, that is where I am and a little of who I am.