So what's the best route? How can I ask a female maximize pleasure for my gay counterpart. He wants to try sex with a girl.. how do I go about bringing in pleasure for him? I'm not scared of fingers or toys in areas that he is used to using.* Give me some direction and some ideas on how this would work best for the both of us. :smile: Thanks in advance to those who step out of the barrier and think with an open mind. * I wont receive anal.