HELP/ADVICE needed! I want to suck my best friend, what do I do?

[ilovetowatchcs]

I'm 62 and recently started sucking cocks. And I like it so much, I'm disappointed I did'nt start when I was younger. My advise? Come right out in the open, look at the guy you want, and say "I find you attractive, and can we go somewhere private together?" Why do this? Because I found out over all my years if you don't ask, you can't get.

 

[Caseylove99]

Went out with another mate at the weekend. I spoke previously about sucking my straight bff off and experimenting when he’s drunk. This one says he’s up for a MMF threesome and sharing a girl together. I asked him if he wanted to watch porn together and wank. He said unsure, but I said it’s a good way for us to get used to being naked together before a threesome. He pulled a girl on a night out last week and I was wingmaning him. I kept telling her he has an enormous dick like a tub of Pringles (which is a true story). When I left to go home I was so horny a I got in bed and had a wank, imagining his hot sweaty thick cock giving her a good pounding, and his seed shooting out of him. Hope I manage to convice him to jerk it with me and get a 3some sorted before our tenancy is up.

Just be like "mate, I want to suck your dick. I know you aren't gay but think about it, who knows how to make your dick feel better than another guy? You can watch porn while I do it and I'll even swallow and if you enjoy it, maybe we can do it again whenever you want. I mean if you're down with a mmf threesome than your comfortable with seeing and possibly even coming into contact with another guy or a dick. I would like to make you feel good, I'm sure I am better than most of the girls you've been with"

 

[mancunianboi]

Just be like "mate, I want to suck your dick. I know you aren't gay but think about it, who knows how to make your dick feel better than another guy? You can watch porn while I do it and I'll even swallow and if you enjoy it, maybe we can do it again whenever you want. I mean if you're down with a mmf threesome than your comfortable with seeing and possibly even coming into contact with another guy or a dick. I would like to make you feel good, I'm sure I am better than most of the girls you've been with"

Haha ive tried saying stuff like this … but I’m working on bringing his around to it ;-)

 

[duckitplz1]

Went out with another mate at the weekend. I spoke previously about sucking my straight bff off and experimenting when he’s drunk. This one says he’s up for a MMF threesome and sharing a girl together. I asked him if he wanted to watch porn together and wank. He said unsure, but I said it’s a good way for us to get used to being naked together before a threesome. He pulled a girl on a night out last week and I was wingmaning him. I kept telling her he has an enormous dick like a tub of Pringles (which is a true story). When I left to go home I was so horny a I got in bed and had a wank, imagining his hot sweaty thick cock giving her a good pounding, and his seed shooting out of him. Hope I manage to convice him to jerk it with me and get a 3some sorted before our tenancy is up.

Ok. But why in this thread?

 

[Nik_name1]

Doesnt mean I haven't thought about losing my virginity. After I sucked his dick the first time I knew he was the one. As far as asking him goes, idk what came over me but I Onondaga blurted it out.

Have you tried anything anal yet? I mean toys, fingers, whatever
It is more about open mind than anything else. If you consider it something wrong, something you won't like - you won't like it. You have to give it a chance first in your mind so you body can enjoy it.
My first time happen unexpected and I wasn't prepared for it, so it was mostly painful and awkward but still kinda like it. If I knew it was going to happen, I would have prepared and also tried some stuff. And don't forget to clean up before that.

 

[Caseylove99]

Have you tried anything anal yet? I mean toys, fingers, whatever
It is more about open mind than anything else. If you consider it something wrong, something you won't like - you won't like it. You have to give it a chance first in your mind so you body can enjoy it.
My first time happen unexpected and I wasn't prepared for it, so it was mostly painful and awkward but still kinda like it. If I knew it was going to happen, I would have prepared and also tried some stuff. And don't forget to clean up before that.

No never, doesn't appeal at all. But if there is going to be anything going in there, it will now be him.

 

[kev2001]

No never, doesn't appeal at all. But if there is going to be anything going in there, it will now be him.

If he's going in, just make sure that you prep/clean in advance... I think there's plenty of info on here somewhere about that.

And also use silicone lube - and don't use it sparingly.

 

[Sexb1150]

No never, doesn't appeal at all. But if there is going to be anything going in there, it will now be him.

I get that but...you might want to loosen up before he goes in. Then again I do get you not wanting anything in there prior to him.

 

[Mahi Bansi]

So when we were sleeping last night he rolled over and spooned with me and he said "I've been thinking a lot about what you asked me and if the time ever comes and you want me to take your virginity, I will." I just replied "ok, but I would have one request" and he said "what is that?" and I said "in addition to doing it bare and you cunning inside of me, I'd want it to be missionary so I can look into your eyes when you pop me" he said "now you're asking for too much" and I asked him how many virgins he has popped and he said "2 for sure maybe a third" and how did you do it with them and he said "missionary at first, but the first one I only lasted about 30 seconds the other 2 switched to doggy" and laughed. I said "why did you do missionary?" And he thought about it for a minute and said "I see why you would want that now, if it means that much to you, I will do it" I said "thanks" and I rolled over to face him pushed his shoulder so he was on his back and scooted down to suck his dick. As I was flopping mr softie in my hand he chuckled and said "I suppose I should've waited to say yes until you finished down there, I was never good at negotiating" and I said "well how about I make sure you don't change your mind" and I proceeded to give him 4 back to back blowjobs. He was so sweaty by the time we were done the bed sheets were soaked and his tip was nearly raw. My fucking jaw is killing me rn but it was so worth it.

I’d be very happy if he fucks you and takes your virginity

 

[AtreidesNelson]

I’m so invested in this story, it’s so hot and passionate.

 

[IanBlake]

I thought I’d pop in and see how this imminent disaster was moving along.

I'm happy you haven't progressed to the stage where you question your worth and get cast in the role of “HomoCan’tLetGo” when this guy concludes that he needs to get married or get a girlfriend, or just decides it's too easy, degrading, and boring having your own fawning sex slave.

There's still the very real possibility that you are crafting some not awful fiction for members to enjoy. It's a bit sad when that option is the best case end game.

@kellove he doesn't love you. Not how you think you love him. And let's be real, you don't really love him. You love what he enables you to get away with when you're with him.

Oh, there is affection, and lust, and sensual urges- none of them are real love.

From what you've said he's been saying,(especially over the issue of anal sex) it sounds like he may genuinely care for you as a friend and hasn't totally stopped seeing you as a person since he said “he didn't know if he could do that to you”

Do you know honestly how he feels about these encounters? I mean beyond the lip service you pay him. Have you genuinely asked about him and listened to what he has to say?

Take you and your feelings and lust out of the equation. Don't lead him to an answer and don't set up your inquiries in such a way that him being honest with you might leave you distraught and lost.

More importantly, are you a good enough friend and person to do right by this friend you claim to love if you don't like what he has to say?

You’re playing with toxic fire, man.

You deserve better than this. He deserves better.

You’re never going to feel complete and fulfilled if you don't respect yourself.

You’re going to get a lot of attention here because you serve a purpose for these members to return for the next exciting chapter in your sexual experiences.

They'll encourage you to take what you can now while you’re young cause that's what they wish they'd have done. You're their entertainment. They forget there's a real person on the other side of the screen. When you stop entertaining them, they won't notice you anymore.

Love yourself. You are enough. You deserve to be loved by someone who can love you how you need to be loved. This world is so huge. There is so much more to see and live and experience.

 

[duckitplz1]

I thought I’d pop in and see how this imminent disaster was moving along.

I'm happy you haven't progressed to the stage where you question your worth and get cast in the role of “HomoCan’tLetGo” when this guy concludes that he needs to get married or get a girlfriend, or just decides it's too easy, degrading, and boring having your own fawning sex slave.

There's still the very real possibility that you are crafting some not awful fiction for members to enjoy. It's a bit sad when that option is the best case end game.

@kellove he doesn't love you. Not how you think you love him. And let's be real, you don't really love him. You love what he enables you to get away with when you're with him.

Oh, there is affection, and lust, and sensual urges- none of them are real love.

From what you've said he's been saying,(especially over the issue of anal sex) it sounds like he may genuinely care for you as a friend and hasn't totally stopped seeing you as a person since he said “he didn't know if he could do that to you”

Do you know honestly how he feels about these encounters? I mean beyond the lip service you pay him. Have you genuinely asked about him and listened to what he has to say?

Take you and your feelings and lust out of the equation. Don't lead him to an answer and don't set up your inquiries in such a way that him being honest with you might leave you distraught and lost.

More importantly, are you a good enough friend and person to do right by this friend you claim to love if you don't like what he has to say?

You’re playing with toxic fire, man.

You deserve better than this. He deserves better.

You’re never going to feel complete and fulfilled if you don't respect yourself.

You’re going to get a lot of attention here because you serve a purpose for these members to return for the next exciting chapter in your sexual experiences.

They'll encourage you to take what you can now while you’re young cause that's what they wish they'd have done. You're their entertainment. They forget there's a real person on the other side of the screen. When you stop entertaining them, they won't notice you anymore.

Love yourself. You are enough. You deserve to be loved by someone who can love you how you need to be loved. This world is so huge. There is so much more to see and live and experience.

In reference to your very first sentence- You didn’t need to. Chill and forget that this thread exists for you.

 

[IanBlake]

In reference to your very first sentence- You didn’t need to. Chill and forget that this thread exists for you.

Go fly a kite

 

[BlueStinger]

I thought I’d pop in and see how this imminent disaster was moving along.

I'm happy you haven't progressed to the stage where you question your worth and get cast in the role of “HomoCan’tLetGo” when this guy concludes that he needs to get married or get a girlfriend, or just decides it's too easy, degrading, and boring having your own fawning sex slave.

There's still the very real possibility that you are crafting some not awful fiction for members to enjoy. It's a bit sad when that option is the best case end game.

@kellove he doesn't love you. Not how you think you love him. And let's be real, you don't really love him. You love what he enables you to get away with when you're with him.

Oh, there is affection, and lust, and sensual urges- none of them are real love.

From what you've said he's been saying,(especially over the issue of anal sex) it sounds like he may genuinely care for you as a friend and hasn't totally stopped seeing you as a person since he said “he didn't know if he could do that to you”

Do you know honestly how he feels about these encounters? I mean beyond the lip service you pay him. Have you genuinely asked about him and listened to what he has to say?

Take you and your feelings and lust out of the equation. Don't lead him to an answer and don't set up your inquiries in such a way that him being honest with you might leave you distraught and lost.

More importantly, are you a good enough friend and person to do right by this friend you claim to love if you don't like what he has to say?

You’re playing with toxic fire, man.

You deserve better than this. He deserves better.

You’re never going to feel complete and fulfilled if you don't respect yourself.

You’re going to get a lot of attention here because you serve a purpose for these members to return for the next exciting chapter in your sexual experiences.

They'll encourage you to take what you can now while you’re young cause that's what they wish they'd have done. You're their entertainment. They forget there's a real person on the other side of the screen. When you stop entertaining them, they won't notice you anymore.

Love yourself. You are enough. You deserve to be loved by someone who can love you how you need to be loved. This world is so huge. There is so much more to see and live and experience.

You know what casual sex is right? They don't need to "love" each other romantically. There is no reason they can't have casual sex and who are you to tell them that their relationship as friends is going to fall apart merely for that reason. All they need is a good conversation about boundaries and then they can move on. Stop projecting your own bad experiences onto everyone it's annoying

 

[duckitplz1]

You know what casual sex is right? They don't need to "love" each other romantically. There is no reason they can't have casual sex and who are you to tell them that their relationship as friends is going to fall apart merely for that reason. All they need is a good conversation about boundaries and then they can move on. Stop projecting your own bad experiences onto everyone it's annoying

I’ve just ignored his id so I don’t see his long ass useless comments anymore.

 

[Nik_name1]

I thought I’d pop in and see how this imminent disaster was moving along.

I'm happy you haven't progressed to the stage where you question your worth and get cast in the role of “HomoCan’tLetGo” when this guy concludes that he needs to get married or get a girlfriend, or just decides it's too easy, degrading, and boring having your own fawning sex slave.

There's still the very real possibility that you are crafting some not awful fiction for members to enjoy. It's a bit sad when that option is the best case end game.

@kellove he doesn't love you. Not how you think you love him. And let's be real, you don't really love him. You love what he enables you to get away with when you're with him.

Oh, there is affection, and lust, and sensual urges- none of them are real love.

From what you've said he's been saying,(especially over the issue of anal sex) it sounds like he may genuinely care for you as a friend and hasn't totally stopped seeing you as a person since he said “he didn't know if he could do that to you”

Do you know honestly how he feels about these encounters? I mean beyond the lip service you pay him. Have you genuinely asked about him and listened to what he has to say?

Take you and your feelings and lust out of the equation. Don't lead him to an answer and don't set up your inquiries in such a way that him being honest with you might leave you distraught and lost.

More importantly, are you a good enough friend and person to do right by this friend you claim to love if you don't like what he has to say?

You’re playing with toxic fire, man.

You deserve better than this. He deserves better.

You’re never going to feel complete and fulfilled if you don't respect yourself.

You’re going to get a lot of attention here because you serve a purpose for these members to return for the next exciting chapter in your sexual experiences.

They'll encourage you to take what you can now while you’re young cause that's what they wish they'd have done. You're their entertainment. They forget there's a real person on the other side of the screen. When you stop entertaining them, they won't notice you anymore.

Love yourself. You are enough. You deserve to be loved by someone who can love you how you need to be loved. This world is so huge. There is so much more to see and live and experience.

O, how I love people to say to others (that they don't know) how they feel, what they deserve, how they should act, how they should feel. Especially when they don't understand the person. This cited post above should've been terrible if it wasn't funny.

I was about to report him for trolling but this is ridiculous - I kinda like it now. IanBlake has some mental trauma from trying to have sex with wrong people and now he tries to impose his feelings on everyone.

Please saviour IanBlake, tell us what to do. Guide us through our confusion. Show us the right way. Again. Please. And again. And again.

 

[Sethxxx]

I thought I’d pop in and see how this imminent disaster was moving along.

I'm happy you haven't progressed to the stage where you question your worth and get cast in the role of “HomoCan’tLetGo” when this guy concludes that he needs to get married or get a girlfriend, or just decides it's too easy, degrading, and boring having your own fawning sex slave.

There's still the very real possibility that you are crafting some not awful fiction for members to enjoy. It's a bit sad when that option is the best case end game.

@kellove he doesn't love you. Not how you think you love him. And let's be real, you don't really love him. You love what he enables you to get away with when you're with him.

Oh, there is affection, and lust, and sensual urges- none of them are real love.

From what you've said he's been saying,(especially over the issue of anal sex) it sounds like he may genuinely care for you as a friend and hasn't totally stopped seeing you as a person since he said “he didn't know if he could do that to you”

Do you know honestly how he feels about these encounters? I mean beyond the lip service you pay him. Have you genuinely asked about him and listened to what he has to say?

Take you and your feelings and lust out of the equation. Don't lead him to an answer and don't set up your inquiries in such a way that him being honest with you might leave you distraught and lost.

More importantly, are you a good enough friend and person to do right by this friend you claim to love if you don't like what he has to say?

You’re playing with toxic fire, man.

You deserve better than this. He deserves better.

You’re never going to feel complete and fulfilled if you don't respect yourself.

You’re going to get a lot of attention here because you serve a purpose for these members to return for the next exciting chapter in your sexual experiences.

They'll encourage you to take what you can now while you’re young cause that's what they wish they'd have done. You're their entertainment. They forget there's a real person on the other side of the screen. When you stop entertaining them, they won't notice you anymore.

Love yourself. You are enough. You deserve to be loved by someone who can love you how you need to be loved. This world is so huge. There is so much more to see and live and experience.

you put exactly what I had been thinking this whole time into words

@kellove the stories are great and I'm sure you're having fun but I hope you're also thinking about yourself long term

 

[Mahi Bansi]

Brother Ian you sure have issues. Please seek therapy. Even if this is all fake, I’m still interested. I bet avengers and Marvel are as real as well. Stop for the love of God bro. And let everyone enjoy even if we all have “dysfunctional fetish fantasies” in your words. Pffftt!

Well I said that long time back (1/2)

 

[Mahi Bansi]

Bro Ian stfu man! If dysfunctional people are enjoying let them enjoy. Stop labeling others here. Just grow up and move on! The atmosphere in this thread is enjoyable. If you’re not liking it (calling spade a spade), then it’s your problem. You don’t have to interfere in this thread and peep in satirical essays. Just move on man, and let us enjoy. And remember this is coming from me who had actually agreed to your first post here, but now I’ve realized your negativity and toxicity is completely diminishing the vibe here. MOVE ON!!!
PS: stop writing huge essays as well

And 2/2

 

[IanBlake]

O, how I love people to say to others (that they don't know) how they feel, what they deserve, how they should act, how they should feel. Especially when they don't understand the person. This cited post above should've been terrible if it wasn't funny.

I was about to report him for trolling but this is ridiculous - I kinda like it now. IanBlake has some mental trauma from trying to have sex with wrong people and now he tries to impose his feelings on everyone.

Please saviour IanBlake, tell us what to do. Guide us through our confusion. Show us the right way. Again. Please. And again. And again.

First, look up what trolling is because that whole diatribe against me is a great example.

I've not once told anyone how to act or feel. If @kellove gets everything he needs from his situation, then that's wonderful.

I understand @kellove as he has described himself very well. I used to be like him.

Because there are so few of them, I felt like a voice of caution and levelheadedness was essential to consider. I get that that interferes with whatever the voyeuristic fetishes folk get from it, but oh well.

I've been around my share of blocks, and I get people. I'm not your savior or guide. I'm a guy who cares about others’ well-being. I'm not a bully. I communicate directly. My experiences nearly killed me. Yeah, sex and sex with the wrong people made an impact. I worked as farm hand and my boss beat me and stabbed me because when he tried to rape me, I resisted. I was in the middle of a 200-acre tree farm. No phone. Bleeding, disoriented and terrified. I ran as fast as I could and looked for hiding spots. I stopped for a breath and my boss was catching up to me, carrying a machete. I kept running and hiding and listening to him call out all the things he was going to do to me with that machete when he caught me. He didn't get me. I managed to make it to a road.

When my straight friend and I entered into our sexual relationship. We had the conversations and said the words that nothing would change. But everything did. And my self esteem and self-worth shattered. My lowest point came when I attempted to end my own life.

So, yeah. I know a thing or two about trauma. But I'm not anyone’s savior or victim.