HELP/ADVICE needed! I want to suck my best friend, what do I do?

[shiby22]

Trying to finger your self using butt plugs, dildos, even start douching and if you like a step up start using PReP. Basically just explore your self what you like and not like to do, experiment things. Thats my opinion atleast if anyone has better idea do that instead.

^this. although you shouldn't depend on a porn forum for medical advice, i'm not sure you need PrEP unless you're planning to make this a habit with other guys

butt plugs and dildos are a good idea. there are kits that help you work up to putting bigger things up there. also lots and lots of lube. you need much more lube than you think you do

 

[Caseylove99]

^this. although you shouldn't depend on a porn forum for medical advice, i'm not sure you need PrEP unless you're planning to make this a habit with other guys

butt plugs and dildos are a good idea. there are kits that help you work up to putting bigger things up there. also lots and lots of lube. you need much more lube than you think you do

Tbh I want his dick to be the first thing of significant size up my ass. I want to feel every inch of his cock slowly widening my hole while I look into his eyes.

 

[Sexb1150]

Tbh I want his dick to be the first thing of significant size up my ass. I want to feel every inch of his cock slowly widening my hole while I look into his eyes.

Ok but, that may not be as enjoyable as you think given its going to be the first time anything has been in there.

 

[JWP65]

Tbh I want his dick to be the first thing of significant size up my ass. I want to feel every inch of his cock slowly widening my hole while I look into his eyes.

Might even be worth looking into buying some poppers to ease the size, that's if you're comfortable with using them. Just take it slow and don't be disheartened if it doesn't work out first time. Would also be great to see a pic of his cock if he was comfortable with sharing

 

[Sexb1150]

Might even be worth looking into buying some poppers to ease the size,

Those have been deemed as a health hazard.

Would also be great to see a pic of his cock if he was comfortable with sharing

He's previously said he's not sharing.

 

[letherion]

I agree with two things. First start looking into douching, it's not something you see much about in all the mainstream shit we take most our info from but in real life it's big. Once you figure out what foods work best for your body, how long what takes to get uhm through and whatnot, and usually once you are with a steady partner you probably won't need to do it as much. But trust me and us all, *douching*.
And the other thing, first time getting dicked will always be a huge new experience no matter what you tried doing yourself before. So, I say just check it out. But that's just me.
Regarding poppers and PrEP that's just a whole other deal. Maybe in a few years? But still you should try and be safe-ish at least

 

[kev2001]

I agree with two things. First start looking into douching, it's not something you see much about in all the mainstream shit we take most our info from but in real life it's big. Once you figure out what foods work best for your body, how long what takes to get uhm through and whatnot, and usually once you are with a steady partner you probably won't need to do it as much. But trust me and us all, *douching*.
And the other thing, first time getting dicked will always be a huge new experience no matter what you tried doing yourself before. So, I say just check it out. But that's just me.
Regarding poppers and PrEP that's just a whole other deal. Maybe in a few years? But still you should try and be safe-ish at least

this is 100 PERCENT SOLID advice

 

[JWP65]

Those have been deemed as a health hazard.

He's previously said he's not sharing.

You seem to have missed off the end of my statement saying if he's comfortable with using them. It was onlya suggestion of a known muscle relaxant used in the gay community.

Can only apologise for the other quote, it's a large thread I must have missed that he'd said he's not sharing.

 

[Sexb1150]

You seem to have missed off the end of my statement saying if he's comfortable with using them.

No, I saw it. But the disclaimer needed to be added. Especially if the OP hadn't been made aware of the new information.

 

[Caseylove99]

I used to have to get tested for work every 3 months bc I was at risk of exposure to hiv/hep/etc. at that job, and I'm clean. He got tested after his last gf and he is clean too. I'm the only person that his dick has touched since her, lol.

 

[Sexb1150]

I used to have to get tested for work every 3 months bc I was at risk of exposure to hiv/hep/etc. at that job, and I'm clean. He got tested after his last gf and he is clean too. I'm the only person that his dick has touched since her, lol.

Well, unending do some research and start preparing of you're ready, which in my opinion, it sounds like you might be.

 

[nickbeybey]

Hope something amazing happens being a long weekend

 

[Caseylove99]

When I sucked his dick earlier tonight while we were watching fireworks down at the beach in his car. I think doing it outside of the confines of his house turned him on because he only lasted about a minute. While he got to watch more of the explosions than I did, I got to feel the best one in my mouth lol. After I licked his dick clean and he put his junk away and I wiped my face off we watched what was left and the finale. After it ended and he started his car I looked at him and said "I think I'm ready for you to take my virginity" and he didn't even look at me, he just quietly reached over and took my hand and said "we will do it when it feels right. I want it to be special for you." He continued, "my first time wasn't special and I still regret it... in a way we will both be loosing our Vcards this time." I smiled and said "ok... sounds good." We are driving right now and jamming out to some music, I know it's not going to happen tonight, possibly not even in the immediate future, but it's going to happen now, so I'm excited and I think he is too bc I can see he has a semi in his shorts right now.

 

[jjdiamond]

When I sucked his dick earlier tonight while we were watching fireworks down at the beach in his car. I think doing it outside of the confines of his house turned him on because he only lasted about a minute. While he got to watch more of the explosions than I did, I got to feel the best one in my mouth lol. After I licked his dick clean and he put his junk away and I wiped my face off we watched what was left and the finale. After it ended and he started his car I looked at him and said "I think I'm ready for you to take my virginity" and he didn't even look at me, he just quietly reached over and took my hand and said "we will do it when it feels right. I want it to be special for you." He continued, "my first time wasn't special and I still regret it... in a way we will both be loosing our Vcards this time." I smiled and said "ok... sounds good." We are driving right now and jamming out to some music, I know it's not going to happen tonight, possibly not even in the immediate future, but it's going to happen now, so I'm excited and I think he is too bc I can see he has a semi in his shorts right now.

This is so romantic! Happy for you!! Thanks for the update! Keep us posted!

 

[Sexb1150]

"we will do it when it feels right. I want it to be special for you." He continued, "my first time wasn't special and I still regret it...

Ok I love him for this.

 

[kev2001]

When I sucked his dick earlier tonight while we were watching fireworks down at the beach in his car. I think doing it outside of the confines of his house turned him on because he only lasted about a minute. While he got to watch more of the explosions than I did, I got to feel the best one in my mouth lol. After I licked his dick clean and he put his junk away and I wiped my face off we watched what was left and the finale. After it ended and he started his car I looked at him and said "I think I'm ready for you to take my virginity" and he didn't even look at me, he just quietly reached over and took my hand and said "we will do it when it feels right. I want it to be special for you." He continued, "my first time wasn't special and I still regret it... in a way we will both be loosing our Vcards this time." I smiled and said "ok... sounds good." We are driving right now and jamming out to some music, I know it's not going to happen tonight, possibly not even in the immediate future, but it's going to happen now, so I'm excited and I think he is too bc I can see he has a semi in his shorts right now.

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!

 

[Appletonguy1543]

I just found this thread and read through all of it. This is a great story and exciting to keep. Please keep us posted as things progress.

 

[Sexb1150]

Oh and I do hope you've taken the advice about preparing yourself prior to it. That way your not struggling to get it in there.

 

[Caseylove99]

We ended up watching some movies from back in the day. Casper, and George of the jungle to be specific. Then we went to bed. I gave him a wake up blowjob this morning. Nice and slow and gentle. Nursed on his dick for about 45 minutes before he exploded. I swallowed and rested my head against his now sweaty stomach looking down at his dick as it softened while I gently rubbed his balls. I asked him "so you think you will ever be able to find a girl that could satisfy you the way that I can?" He just reach down and started rubbing his fingers through my hair and eventually said "probably not..." I had to ask "do you think you're going to look anytime soon?" He replied "I don't know man, this is great, and if your happy, I'm happy... but..." and I said "but you are going to eventually? Right?" and he stoped stroking my hair. He said "you already know they answer to that question, we both know you can't give me the wife and family I want someday." I started tearing up a little and I think he noticed bc my tears streaked down my face and across his stomach. He started stroking my hair again and said "everything is going to be ok, we will always be closer than just being best friends. I'm never going to let change" I quietly mumbled "how can you be so sure?" He did say anything for about 30 seconds so I pressed the question again, "how can you be sure?" he stopped stroking my hair again and pulled his hand off of my head this time. I shifted and turned over so I was looking up at his face. He was looking off towards the wall with his a distant look on his face. After a few seconds passed he looked down at me, locked eyes and took a slow breath in and said to me "I don't think anyone can ever be 100% sure about such things, but I AM as sure as I have EVER been about anything in my life up to this point. I replied "so what is that even supposed to mean" and he put his hand back on my head and started rubbing his fingers through my hair again. After a few strokes he smiled down at me and asked me "can I keep you?" and I smiled back at him and nodded. And I slid up back along side him and we fell back asleep for a few more hours.

 

[RJ5on1]

We ended up watching some movies from back in the day. Casper, and George of the jungle to be specific. Then we went to bed. I gave him a wake up blowjob this morning. Nice and slow and gentle. Nursed on his dick for about 45 minutes before he exploded. I swallowed and rested my head against his now sweaty stomach looking down at his dick as it softened while I gently rubbed his balls. I asked him "so you think you will ever be able to find a girl that could satisfy you the way that I can?" He just reach down and started rubbing his fingers through my hair and eventually said "probably not..." I had to ask "do you think you're going to look anytime soon?" He replied "I don't know man, this is great, and if your happy, I'm happy... but..." and I said "but you are going to eventually? Right?" and he stoped stroking my hair. He said "you already know they answer to that question, we both know you can't give me the wife and family I want someday." I started tearing up a little and I think he noticed bc my tears streaked down my face and across his stomach. He started stroking my hair again and said "everything is going to be ok, we will always be closer than just being best friends. I'm never going to let change" I quietly mumbled "how can you be so sure?" He did say anything for about 30 seconds so I pressed the question again, "how can you be sure?" he stopped stroking my hair again and pulled his hand off of my head this time. I shifted and turned over so I was looking up at his face. He was looking off towards the wall with his a distant look on his face. After a few seconds passed he looked down at me, locked eyes and took a slow breath in and said to me "I don't think anyone can ever be 100% sure about such things, but I AM as sure as I have EVER been about anything in my life up to this point. I replied "so what is that even supposed to mean" and he put his hand back on my head and started rubbing his fingers through my hair again. After a few strokes he smiled down at me and asked me "can I keep you?" and I smiled back at him and nodded. And I slid up back along side him and we fell back asleep for a few more hours.

Kellove, he's an awesome friend! And I'd say, He's the BEST of best friends!

You brought up the subject, you even pressed him on it further. He answered you fairly, and honestly... he even took his time to THINK before he answered you!

FWIW, my suggestion is to never bring it up again... leave that for him to do if/when HE wants to. If you press it from here, that could drive a wedge between you and him. Don't risk creating a possible storm in your relationship. Cherish and love what you have!