HELP/ADVICE needed! I want to suck my best friend, what do I do?

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Lmao those random big brother situations kill me, I've been through a few myself. He's ok with you guys being whatever you are, I say you take it as a win and just keep enjoying what you have, labels be damned
 

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We talked about it last night. I pretty much just asked "wtf was that about" and he was kinda like "I don't know, just felt like the right thing to say in the moment" and I was like "so what does this mean?" And he said "it means it's time to go to bed" so we did and we did our usual blowjob/fleshlight combination before we fell asleep. He did cum quicker than usual though, not sure if that meant anything.

We haven't talked about it today but are carrying on like normal so it is what it is I guess.
Is he still watching porn to get hard before you blow him?
 

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Hey @kellove

Has/does he engage or interact, at least a little more, with you now, or is it still mostly just you?

Also, Bro, we'd love to hear about some of y'all's more recent experiences. There are still a lot of us that are truly interested in hearing about you guys (and the trolls be damned!).
 

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Hey @kellove

Has/does he engage or interact, at least a little more, with you now, or is it still mostly just you?

Also, Bro, we'd love to hear about some of y'all's more recent experiences. There are still a lot of us that are truly interested in hearing about you guys (and the trolls be damned!).
We cuddle a lot more often now. He still doesn't really enjoy doing sexual stuff to me but he does rub my Dick and has given me a hj occasionally, sometimes with his hand but more often with a fleshlight. Every time I suck his dick he thanks me and tells me he loves me after I finish. We haven't had actual sex since the last time I mentioned it and neither of us really want to. We are happy and this is working for us so that's all that matters I guess.
 

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Are you sucking off your best friend now too? Or thinking about doing it? Lol
Same here. I'm going through a similar path that I started because of reading this thread. Any update would really boost my confidence. Hope you are both doing well, kellove.
 

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Are you sucking off your best friend now too? Or thinking about doing it? Lol
Not yet, but I've started the ball rolling.
I'm a closeted man my whole life. I'm in my 30's now and even though I think it's an open secret to everyone who knows me (don't ask, don't tell), I just refuse to come out. But last December I came out to him, and just him, and it felt so right. I didn't ask him if I could do anything sexual to him, I just said I wanted to see him fully naked. We had a beach to ourselves and I saw the outline of his cock through his shorts, he wasn't wearing any underwear under that and I could make out the shape of the head. We were also tripping on acid and well, I couldn't hold myself back anymore. I wanted honesty between us and it just felt like the right time to do it.

He was shocked of course, in our culture we aren't so usually forthright. He hugged me and said that there was nothing wrong with how I was feeling, and that no matter what happened nothing would change between us. But that he couldn't give me what I asked for right away and that he would have to 'think about it'. I'm used to rejection in my life so I don't care if nothing comes of it. But I was tired of having to hide it from him, because I really do love him, unconditionally. I don't have any fantasies about us getting married or anything, I just wanted someone in this life that I could be 100% honest to. And he was it.

I wanted to see his body so I could desensitise myself, so I don't have to get all secretly horny when I'm alone with him. I don't know if that's gonna help in the long haul. Maybe I don't even know what I want yet. But I'm not in any rush. I can wait. Years. Maybe in another lifetime. What's important is in this one, there's someone I can finally confide in. And I couldn't get over the fact that it was the one guy who was my ultimate sexual fantasy, who could make me cum the hardest, that I said it to.

I don't think I would ever have found the courage had I not stumbled upon your post and I'm really grateful to you for it. Even though I'm not there yet (and I WOULD love to suck his dick after I've had the chance to admire and worship his body) and even though I might never get there, in this moment in my life I feel happier than I've ever been before. Shallow, I know. I even told him about you, this post, and this website, that night while we laid in bed together drifting off to sleep...
 

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I wanted to see his body so I could desensitise myself, so I don't have to get all secretly horny when I'm alone with him. I don't know if that's gonna help in the long haul.

I know that seeing my hot best friend naked finally took the power out of it. After that, it was like “yeah, and?” Attitude about it. I mean it was impressive, but once I knew, meh.
 

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I know that seeing my hot best friend naked finally took the power out of it. After that, it was like “yeah, and?” Attitude about it. I mean it was impressive, but once I knew, meh.
That's what I'm hoping for. I wanted more than anything to remove that power so our friendship can grow beyond my horny thoughts of him. But deep down I'm also worried it might wake an even greater desire.

That same night, one of the things I actually told him (I went on and on and told him all my darkest truths regarding him, it was like he slipped me a truth serum) that I really loved him like a brother. To which he replied: "I have other friends I love like brothers too but I don't feel anything sexual about them."
It stumped me for a moment but then I replied: "Well, like a Targaryen brother, then." My lust for him gets in the way of greater things I want to do with him. Things that aren't particularly sexual but give me a sense of fulfilment unlike any other.

But you know, sometimes I wonder if I had done wrong. These days I sometimes think that maybe I freaked him out too much that night. Even though we now say "I love you" to each other all the time (we even came up with a non-verbal way to say it so we can say it secretly in front of other people) deep down I can't help but have all these doubts that he was so disgusted by what I told him that he's subconsciously keeping his distance now.
 

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That's what I'm hoping for. I wanted more than anything to remove that power so our friendship can grow beyond my horny thoughts of him. But deep down I'm also worried it might wake an even greater desire.

That same night, one of the things I actually told him (I went on and on and told him all my darkest truths regarding him, it was like he slipped me a truth serum) that I really loved him like a brother. To which he replied: "I have other friends I love like brothers too but I don't feel anything sexual about them."
It stumped me for a moment but then I replied: "Well, like a Targaryen brother, then." My lust for him gets in the way of greater things I want to do with him. Things that aren't particularly sexual but give me a sense of fulfilment unlike any other.

But you know, sometimes I wonder if I had done wrong. These days I sometimes think that maybe I freaked him out too much that night. Even though we now say "I love you" to each other all the time (we even came up with a non-verbal way to say it so we can say it secretly in front of other people) deep down I can't help but have all these doubts that he was so disgusted by what I told him that he's subconsciously keeping his distance now.
Be like "hey... I know I asked to see your dick a while ago. I probably shouldn't have asked but I was just being honest. If you never want me to bring it up again, then I won't, but if you ever do feel ok with showing me and you want something in return... while you were showing it to me... if there is anyone I would do that for, it would be you."
 

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So last night after we were in bed and I finished sucking his dick he asked me if we could have sex again. I told him if he really wanted to have sex again that we could next weekend. He said that he loved me and then he shocked me by sliding down under the covers and sucking my dick. He only had like 2 inches in his mouth and only moved his tongue a little but I was so hard and horny from sucking his dick and I because I didn't get the chance to jerk off yet I came in like 20 seconds. I tried telling him I was cumming right before it happened but It was so fast and I came in his mouth. He pushed off me and grabbed a shirt and spit it out and went to the bathroom to brush his teeth without saying anything. I felt so bad I was almost crying and curled up in a fetal position. When he finished brushing his teeth he came back in and just got onto his side of the bed and turned the lights off. I told him I was sorry and that I tried to tell him and he said "just shut up, I heard you telling me, but I let you cum in my mouth." I was speechless, and still said I was sorry. He said it was fucking gross and doesn't know how I liked doing it for him. I told him it was because I loved him and I know how much he enjoyed cumming in my mouth and letting me tongue massage his foreskin while he softened. He said I was right. It made him feel like both he and his dick were being worshipped. I told him that was pretty much the truth, we lol'd, and went to bed. He is in the shower right now and when he gets into bed, I'm going to bury my tongue under his foreskin and then suck him until until he explodes, haha.
 

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So last night after we were in bed and I finished sucking his dick he asked me if we could have sex again. I told him if he really wanted to have sex again that we could next weekend. He said that he loved me and then he shocked me by sliding down under the covers and sucking my dick. He only had like 2 inches in his mouth and only moved his tongue a little but I was so hard and horny from sucking his dick and I because I didn't get the chance to jerk off yet I came in like 20 seconds. I tried telling him I was cumming right before it happened but It was so fast and I came in his mouth. He pushed off me and grabbed a shirt and spit it out and went to the bathroom to brush his teeth without saying anything. I felt so bad I was almost crying and curled up in a fetal position. When he finished brushing his teeth he came back in and just got onto his side of the bed and turned the lights off. I told him I was sorry and that I tried to tell him and he said "just shut up, I heard you telling me, but I let you cum in my mouth." I was speechless, and still said I was sorry. He said it was fucking gross and doesn't know how I liked doing it for him. I told him it was because I loved him and I know how much he enjoyed cumming in my mouth and letting me tongue massage his foreskin while he softened. He said I was right. It made him feel like both he and his dick were being worshipped. I told him that was pretty much the truth, we lol'd, and went to bed. He is in the shower right now and when he gets into bed, I'm going to bury my tongue under his foreskin and then suck him until until he explodes, haha.
Yeah, I've got nothing for this one.
 

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I don't think I can put into words how much I truly enjoy having his dick in my mouth. There is just something about it, the taste, the smell of his pubes. I sucked him off 2 times in a row last night and just kept it in my mouth for a while afterwards. I still don't understand why his girlfriends thought his foreskin was gross.
 

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Then why do you keep posting ? If you don't like it just go we're not restraining you guys.
It doesn't go away since I already make a post, so I might as well keep reminding you all how stupid this thread is and that you need to get checked out if you're still believing this shit.
 
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It doesn't go away since I already make a post, so I might as well keep reminding you all how stupid this thread is and that you need to get checked out if you're still believing this shit.
After some time the threads where I post don't appear anymore. Check your options if it does that for you. And if you can't stop that just ignore this thread when he appears.
 
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