Help Communicating With My Wife

[Satriani]

My wife and I have a beautiful life, are very much in love, and until the last two or three years an electric love life. We are both and find each other very attractive and when we were young before we had kids would have sex all the time. Athletic, vigorous, and spontaneous, but we never did any fantasy or role play. Honestly we were so hot for each other it really never came up. As we've gotten older I'm more open about what gets me real hot where she is never the one bringing up any spicy ideas but usually very, very happy to play along. She knows that big cocks in porn or fantasy play really turn me on, I'm 6'4 250lbs athletically built and have a nice 6in cock, she also knows that I used to be real insecure about it. Around two years ago we started using some larger dildos for my kink and some submissive me dominating her stuff for her kink. We've had really high highs and preformed on cam before and we've had the lowest of lows with raised voices and tears. I know physically she loves it and in the right mind can be real hot about her fantasies and what not. I'm 36 and and we usually don't fool around till after a late night of drinking selzers together and sometimes its hard for me to preform physically under those conditions but I still want the intimate time. Rally want help on how to get her to feel more comfortable using the larger toys more frequently as an erotic journey for us as a couple.

 

[deleted848353]

We are not your wife talk to her

Also paragraphs dude

 

[MickeyLee]

Who are these dildos being used on?

 

[Holly Doors]

If drinking affects your performance maybe try drinking less, I've noticed over the years alcohol tends to either give guys brewer's droop or have the opposite effect where they stay hard for longer, seems to me that you're suffering from brewer's droop.

 

[EllieP]

You really want her to use large toys for whose enjoyment? Sounds more like for you.

OK, first put down the drink. Second, talk to her to see what makes her motor run. Don't assume anything, and don't let your own opinions get in the way of listening to what she has to say. And she may be saying a lot, just not with her voice.

I'm not her, so I can't tell you exactly what to do. Believe it or not, people with vaginas don't all vote the same way.

And don't let us tell you what to do either.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Oh, look another one handed typist.


he drinks to excess which gives him limp dick.

he’s unclear who uses the dildo and for who‘s pleasure.

he never returns.

post history says he’s here to cheat.

lovely humaning all around.