Help for a shy friend

[The Dragon]

I have been approached by the sweetest young guy (20) who is rather timid on this web site about how best to please his girl friend.
He seems to really care about her and wants only the best for her.
He has what might be described as *average* proportions.
Ladies lets be gentle with this one.
What makes a good considerate lover for you.
What makes you melt and long to see him again.
This doesn't have to be the sex it's self as I place equal value on the time and seduction.
Gentle Ladies please help this sweet, well meaning lad.

 

[B_FruitFly]

ask her what she likes

 

[Not_Punny]

Ditto to what Kotchanski and Fruitfly said.

My additional recommendation would be to get into her head and play out her fantasies. And mean it (do it with some sincerity).

 

[Principessa]

ask her what she likes

The thing is if she is as young as he, and inexperienced she won't know how to respond because she won't know what feels good.

 

[Hansalami]

ask her what she likes

If he's shy why doesn't she just tell him, without being asked first?

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

The one thing an ex used to do that made me fall head over heels for him was whenever we were in bed just talking of laying together he would ever so gently play with my nipples. Not trying to get me aroused or anything but he just loved to touch and feel. And i loved for him to touch and feel :tongue:

Also unless she ask for it (and especially not in the beginning) never try and force her during a blow job. It is a sure thing that will kill her enthusiasm when she wants to take it slow and enjoy and you are trying to make her gag on your cock.

 

[D_Ed69s girl]

I have been approached by the sweetest young guy (20) who is rather timid on this web site about how best to please his girl friend.
He seems to really care about her and wants only the best for her.
He has what might be described as *average* proportions.
Ladies lets be gentle with this one.
What makes a good considerate lover for you.
What makes you melt and long to see him again.
This doesn't have to be the sex it's self as I place equal value on the time and seduction.
Gentle Ladies please help this sweet, well meaning lad.

Honestly for me, my hubby was a virgin when we met and I was his first. The thing that brought me back was the fact that he cared for me and he treated me gentle and even apologize when he thought he hurt me. He showed true tenderness for me. Seventeen years later and he still is the gentle, tender lover who takes care of all my needs even when we have quickys.
He also is caring man who when he sees I am sick or very tired, make sure I get enough rest and get better. Never pushing himself on me, I think that most women want to have a man who shows true concern for them and their well being. I would gladly have sex even when I am dog tired with my hubby because he is such a caring and gentle lover.