How about some girth reduction ideas? :tongue:
Well, I can't offer any help regarding reducing girth but I can tell you what helped me. Maybe it will help her.
When we were long distance I discovered that the longer we had gone without sex, the more sore I got when we finally had sex, until there was one time when I had to call "uncle" after only about 15 minutes. That's when I figured out that if I masturbated using penetration toys in the days preceding us having sex that it solved the problem. I think I would always tighten up so much because when I masturbate, I usually just use my hand and rub my clit. Doctors say that when it comes to vaginismus that for dilation to work, the dilation inserts must be used daily. I prefer dildos, rabbits, and g-spot toys to the hard plastic dilation inserts doctors give out. A variety of toys in different sizes really helped me out. I found that I didn't even have to use one as big as him. Just masturbating with penetration toys and having fun all by myself did the job for me, but I had more of a problem with length than girth.
Has she tried anything like that?
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