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Help hours away from first time

Discussion in 'Ask a Gay Man' started by stud2020, Feb 11, 2019.

  1. stud2020

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    Extremely nervous about my first time with another man. It's only a few hours away until I go over to his house. He is a top who is willing to help me explore. Any quick tips from anyone is greatly appreciated.
     
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    Please ! Let know us ur experiencie ! In March will be my first time too! So excited but afraid too
     
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    Breathe, relax, take your time, have fun, ask questions, let him help you, and set limits and stick to them.
     
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    Have u cleaned out thoroughly? That is the first rule of bottoming. Unless he's into scat. But that's for another time. Lol I'll try to keep it more basic since it's your 1st time. Btw are u gay? Have u been with women before? Jw.
     
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    Hopefully you had a good experience my friend.........This forum (LPSG) is full of good advice for just about everything....including first time having sex with another man. Again....hope it went well......
     
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    Basically you are a gay virgin, and as such, your first time is probably going to be a bit stressful/anxious. It will feel a bit intimidated, clumsy, awkward and afterwards you may question whether you did the right thing or not. If you chose the right guy, hopefully these feelings will be a lot less.

    These things are all normal and a natural part of being inexperienced. Same as when you first learn to drive.

    With experience and an openness to learn and experiment, in the end you will probably be more satisfied than you've ever been in your life.
     
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    para que funcione o tenga éxito, ¿debe haber penetración o pueden ser besados, chupados y lamidos?
     
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    It’s a bit late to offer advice now I guess, just take it at your pace, lots of lube, foreplay, get really horny and relax, make sure he takes it slow and prepared to stop when you say until you get used to it.... but enjoy. Let’s us know how it goes. Good luck
     
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