Help! How can I make myself love semen?

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  1. eyescream

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    I love giving blowjobs, I love precum, but when the semen comes out it makes me want to runaway.:biggrin1:

    I've 'swallowed' only once in my life (which is an embarrassing number, considering the fact that I am down there constantly if not all the time).

    Many guys have pungent-smelling semen, but not all of them are and to be honest, my issue is actually with the texture of the semen and not the smell of it.

    Moving it around in my mouth makes me gag, this reaction is involuntary.

    When I see all these women and men licking every drop of spunk on porn, it grosses me out and I do wonder if they're paid to look like they're enjoying it.

    But after reading many posts in here, it is obvious that many love semen and in some cases, love it enough to integrate it into their daily food intake.:biggrin1:

    How can I make myself love semen? Anyone in here didn't like sperm at first but then got used to it and ended up loving it? I keep thinking there are swimming little half-kids in there and don't associate it with sex. Help!
     
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    Maybe try associating it with positive things, like how much the guy enjoyed what you did, or your skill, or how much he's into you, love, intimacy, raw passion...
    I definitely don't think you need to go so far as include it in your daily food intake though. That's just strange to me.
     
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    That's kind of like saying, "How can I make myself love pumpkin pie?" when you do, in fact, despise pumpkin pie.

    If you're with the guy for any length of time and his semen is "pungent", you can suggest that he change his food intake for you (some things make it less "pungent", although part of that is just the individual human chemistry).

    Otherwise, practice, practice, practice. When I first started having sex with other people, I was also repulsed when the man came in my mouth. Now I love it, but I've had about 30 years of practice.
     
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    I really don't think that you can make yourself love it. I think you can only change the way you feel about not loving it.

    I don't love the taste of cum either. It's obviously such a marvelous feeling to come in my mouth that I don't feel like it's much of a sacrifice to taste it for a minute. One of my favorite parts of giving a blowjob is the noises a man makes when his penis is in my mouth and he makes the best ones if he comes with his penis in my mouth. I just take a drink of something afterwards to wash away the flavor and I'm good!
     
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    can't get past the smell
     
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    It's an aquired taste...kinda like beer or wine. I use to hate drinking beer and wine, but I only did it because all my friends were doin it (like at parties and stuff). But then I started to like the taste and now I like drinking beer and wine. Anyways, I remember the first time I had cum in my mouth and swallowed it, it was gross and I couldn'tbelieve I did that. But as weeks went by, I would think of all the men that I associated within one way or another, and how much cum they had in their nuts, and how I want it in my mouth and how it tasted when the last guy came in my mouth and that would make me hoorny and want it and want to give him that release. Anyways that's how I came to love cum.....the more cum the happier I am. ;-P
     
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    Try getting him to drink pineapple juice or some other sweet fruit juice, makes it taste like a smoothie :)
     
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    Try making sure he is deep in your mouth when he cums. If it is directed at the back of your mouth/throat you can swallow without tasting or feeling it on your tongue.
     
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    Does that actually work? How soon beforehand? How much?
     
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    In addition to the need to get used to the taste by practicing with your man, you have to get past the mind thing. Get used to the texture part by eating small doses of similarly textured but sweet foods...like vanilla syrup or thickened white sauce. That may remove one side of the problem for ya.

    By the way...I love your attitude!
     
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    Don't wash it round your mouth, just swallow straight away.

    I get a warm glow in my tummy and a mood-lift a few minutes later that make up for the iffy taste and texture. It could be from the sugars and feel-good hormones semen contains, or from the freshness of the protein. Apart from mothers' milk (which I can't remember, lol) or raw oysters (which I haven't tried) there's no fresher food!
     
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    The guy I'm currently screwing doesn't ever cum in my mouth (we're not in a relationship) so it's all good. I've only had 2 guys cum in my mouth my whole life (yes, yet another embarrassing number).

    One of them had very pungent-smelling semen, there was nothing on earth he wasn't consuming: coffee, all kinds of foods and he was a smoker.

    The other guy's semen was sweet and didn't smell pungent at all, in fact it didn't have much of a scent. He would cum over and over and over again all over his sheets and would be okay sleeping in the same thing.:eek:

    I know some people here believes that if you hate something, you can never love it. But I don't believe that. I believe you can actually learn to love anything. I hated blow jobs at some point and now I absolutely love it to obsession. I'm confident I can learn to love semen as much as the inspiring people in this community.:wink:
     
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    You just haven't tried cooking with it :yumyum:
     
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    There is nothing wrong with not liking the taste/texture of semen. If you don't like it, you don't have to push yourself to like it - not even if your partner wants it.

    People have already suggested asking your partner to eat sweet fruits (banana, pineapple, mango). You can also ask him to avoid bitter foods (chocolate, coffee, meat, etc...) and avoid smoking.
     
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    Nope, nobody is forcing me to love it.:biggrin1: I just want to. I'm not married but when I eventually do, there's nothing I want to say no to (well, except BDSM) and most guys are offended when their sperm isn't adored so that's a place I want to be.:redface:

    If a guy went down on me and then rushed to the bathroom to wash his mouth or to spit, I would be offended. Stuff like that would be okay in a temporary relationship like a fling (never happened to me but if it did...). But I don't think it's okay in a marriage. So I want to learn to love it even if marriage is still very far away from my mind.:redface:
     
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    It does work, i had a BF with rather unplesent cum. A glass of juice at breakfast and i was gargling with his cum!:tongue:
     
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    It works for women too. Acidic fruits.
     
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    Guys are not too offended if you don't swallow but they are if you try to kiss him with your mouth full semen.
     
  19. D_Borin_A_Hole

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    I have no problem if my girl kisses me after giving me head, as long as she isn't trying to snow blow me or anything like that. Though I'm not put off by other men's semen, so that might help.
     
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    Practice.
     
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