Help, hung stud with hang up, need ur input

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  1. mrbig1

    mrbig1 New Member

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    help, I got a serious issue I need everyones feedback on.
    I have been with my girl for 4 years and we are engaged.
    I have a great 9.5 inch thick straigt cock.
    One night about 2 years ago, I would boost about my cock, then I asked if she ever had any bigger and she said yes, I mean fuck, she said her boyfriend before me was longer but not thicker. My ego was blown and I still struggle with it. Ive always had girls go crazy over my cock, but I cant help but think that she thinks of his cock every once in a while.
    Im a worked out hung stud and he is a skinny white boy with a cock slightly longer than mine, how do I get over it?

    and theres more

    check this out though.
    So my girl and I are close, in the begining I found a tape( nothing raunch, not even oral or intercouse) but it did have her boyfrieds cock on it. Of couse I watched it and I swear mine is bigger(longer and fatter) ,thats why its so troubling that she thinks his was longer. We here partying the night I asked her so I know she was responding honestly. I know I won, but it so hard to go from all the past partners raving about my cock and she never says a word. Thats all, its just a struggle.
     
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    dude, seek professional help.
     
  3. AverageJoe06

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    Man, some guys are just never satisfied with anything. :rolleyes:

    You've got a tool that 99% of us would kill to have, so you need to either find a way to be happy with that or find another girl.
     
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    So you have a problem with all white men or is it just the ones hung better than you? Can the white boy bullshit!

    Like someone said get over it or look for profesional help.
     
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    Look get over it.
    She is probably jerking your chain.
    Sounds a bit like your cock is bigger than your self esteem.
    Put things in perspective man. Most women, in fact most people dont measure cocks very acurately without a tape and some even with one.
    Give yourself a break
    Youre hung so if there is a minimal % more so there are a hell of a lot of less and a way less.
    Stop comparing and use what you got.
    Stop asking her about it!
     
  6. mrbig1

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    I dont have a problem with any race. Im white too.
     
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    show a picture of them both and let us be the judges.
     
  8. mrbig1

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    i wish i could, but use ur imagination.
    me- 6 2',175, white and athletic as hell big balls and my cock is straight as and arrow, 9.5-10 hard
    him- 6, 150, white, skinny, lanky, curved cock looked to get bout 9 but i only saw it limp.

    I know Im reading to much into this, but this is the women Im going to marry and she better worship my dick and my dick only.
     
  9. davidjh7

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    The difference is pretty negligable, it seems---and your girl chooses to be with YOU< not him. Plus, you have an athletic body, and the other characteristics that he doesn't. Trust me--he is envious of something someone ELSE has going for them that he doesn't---the only reason you are freaking out is because it is the FIRST time it has been brought home to you that YOU don;t have the biggest cock in the world--most men have to figure this out and deal with it much ealier in life, so have already moved beyond it--now is your time to do so as well. You are going to be bigger than almost all the men you or your lady encounter in life--but not always. It was made personal because it involved your gf--and you wonder if now you "measure up" to he EX. If you have good sex, and she intiates sex a good part of the time, you measure up--period. If not, then work on WHY the sex isn't good--and more than likely it has nothing to do with your cock. You ARE more than your penis, or should be.
     
  10. snoozan

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    The sheer fact that you know all of this information about this guy and are obsessing about it clearly shows there's something wrong in the way you deal with relationships. I don't know if it's insecurity, jealousy, possessiveness, or whatever, but if this is getting you hung up enough to hurt your relationship, seeing a therapist to deal with the underlying issue might not be a bad idea.

    Note that I said "underlying issue." I don't think this has much to do with this guy's cock or who your girlfriend has fucked or whatver, it has to do with you and how you feel about yourself in your relationship with her, and probably any other women you may get involved with.

    Go talk to someone. Comparing yourself obsessively to this guy only shows that you have a problem with yourself that you need to address.

    Snooz

     
  11. snoozan

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    I love you, kotchanski. what i would have said if i could hae put the words together right.

     
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    Fucking WORD. I love you! :biggrin1:
     
  13. DC_DEEP

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    I'm joining the others and saying "kotchanski, I love you!"

    Oh, wait, I've told you that before. Oh well. I still do.
     
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    Is this true?

    I wouldn't want to see any video of my ex fucking another guy, or even to ever see any of my ex's again...

    This seems very weird. I'm having a hard time understanding why you would give a shit about her ex when you're obviously the pinnacle of masculinity and you deserve to be worshipped like the stud you are :rolleyes:

    Hmm *scratches chin*
     
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    MrBig1- would you be worried or obsessed if he was a little person,(dwarf) ? Then you would probably worry about being tall. Get over it and be proud of what you do have, a big cock and his ex-girlfriend.:smile:
     
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    You're too damn nice, David:rolleyes:. This guy's obviously beyond help, so stop giving him advice.
     
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    Ya know, I hate to say it, but aside from needing some help in getting over this, maybe this story is a good argument for not having sex before marriage. There are always going to women and men who can't get over the idea that "the love of their life" was someone else, and that someone else might have been somehow more sexually satisfying.

    I don't think you relationship with this girl or any other will be "lasting," until you can focus on more important parts of the relationship than your need to have your cock admired. And I know what it's like to obssess endlessly about certain things, so I actually have some sympathy for you. However, you gotta get some help with this, because it's a pretty certain thing you're gonna find more of this after this relationship ends. And after it ends, are you going to need something that isn't based on admiring your cock, or based on a partnership where both parties get to be admired, loved, and accepted?

    Just things to think about. My intent is not to be harsh, although maybe I was pretty plain spoken. I have no ill-will for you.

    Good luck. I really do wish you well.
     
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    I hear what u all are saying. Dont get me wrong the sex is great and she asks for it all the time. I just picked a good girl who Im trying to bring out the vocal hot slut in her with me alone. THanks for all your thoughts peeps.
     
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    You guys are all assholes. The guy calls it a hang up. He knows he shouldn't feel this way and probably doesn't know why he does. He's looking for some understanding and you guys throw his request back in his face, tell him to get over it, suck it up, you should learn to be happy with yourself. What are your hang ups? If you could just get over them, you would right? And if you don't have any, who the fuck are you to lord it over someone who does?

    I remember when this group was actually about support, not voyeurism. It was founded on the idea that guys with big cocks can feel insecure too, by guys who were sick of being told to "get over it, you're lucky, just realize it." Now people just get online for the opportunity to tell someone off and get sassy in a consequence-free environment and are actually congratulated by like-minded nitwits. I normally don't bother posting, but you assholes pissed me off tonight. Stop judging people and actually try to help someone.

    mrbig1, I actually understand your dilemma. I've been in similar situations. My cock isn't nearly as big as yours, so it's much more likely to happen, but I was dating a girl who had a videotape of a guy she had hooked up with once. I felt like I had to watch it. And afterwards, I obsessed about it. My relationship with and my concerns about my penis aren't healthy ones, and I have sought professional help, but to little avail. It's not like there's a pill to get you to stop thinking about wanting a bigger cock. It would certainly be difficult for me to get over the idea that my future wife didn't think my penis was special. I'll refrain from giving advice, because I'm not sure that my instincts would be the right ones for you. I hope things work out with you and your fiancee.
     
  20. dreamer20

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    You have the total package and the girl. He is the skinny man that she rejected. There is no need to obsess over the features of her ex. Of course there are people out there larger and smaller, fatter and thinner, etc. etc. ad naseum. But she has chosen to make her life with you and that's what really matters.
     
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